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 Reading about this couple really got my blood boiling. This beautiful woman was good enough to carry his 2 children. Who does he think he is? Did he not take wedding vows? NO matter what he should be supporting her and praising everything she does to build her self esteem. This poor woman probably feels no self worth thanks to him, What about what is on the inside? IS it all about looking like a Barbie Doll to him? He is certainly no Adonis. She needs to pack herself and those children up and make a life for herself. If she has family that can help her get on her feet, she would feel 10 feet tall just being away from the mental abuse. He is the one that needs the help. I was in a similar situation and it came to a boiling point where I Just could not take it anymore and left with a 6 month old, 2 year old and 7 year old and started over. IT was not easy at all but I felt empowered for I was able to buy us our own home in my name only which made me feel wonderful. I was forced to work 2 jobs for a long time for he did not pay child support. i Missed my children so much but i Was very careful about hiring child care. I was able to get my children involved in activities like gymnastics, soccer. t-ball and soon I only had to work one job. I Have been divorced for 21 years and my children are all in their 20's and have never seen him since our divorce. i feel as though he was the loser for I have 3 beautiful children that I was so Blessed with. I Don't think that I Could ever really trust a man again after so much abuse. This woman needs to get out before she is so emotionally scarred just as those children will be. I wish her only the best and to be strong.