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November 27, 2007, 2:27 pm PST
11/27 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2
Quote From: mac2372I FIND IT INTERESTING THAT EVERYONE FEELS SORRY FOR THE MOTHER IN LAW. SHE IS NO ANGEL. I MYSELF AM A DAUGHTER IN LAW TO A WOMAN WHO PRETTY MUCH IGNORES MY EXISTANCE. SHE PLAYS FAVORITES WITH HER OTHER DAUGHTER IN LAW---OVER THAT OF HER OWN DAUGHTER. SHE PLAYS FAVORITES WITH HER GRANDCHILDREN. OFTEN TIMES PEOPLE POINT FINGERS AND MAKE ASSUMPTIONS THAT IT IS THE BRIDES JOB TO MAKE NICE WITH THE MOTHER OF THE GROOM........HOWEVER, IT WOULD SEEM THAT IT IS JUST AS MUCH THE MOTHERS RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE NICE WITH THE BRIDE. AS FOR THE SON. MAYBE HE SEES THE PICTURE FOR WHAT IT IS. MAYBE HE IS SIDING WITH HIS BRIDE TO BE BECAUSE HE KNOWS HOW HIS MOTHER IS AND BEHAVED IN THE PAST. AS FOR MY HUSBAND AND MYSELF WE SPEND VERY LITTLE TIME WITH HIS FAMILY. USUALLY DURING THE HOLIDAYS ONLY. THEN FOR AS SHORT A TIME AS WE MUST. WE BOTH GET LITTLE ENJOYMENT OUT OF IT. THERES ALOT OF COMPETITION BETWEEN THE OTHER DAUGHTER IN LAW AND MY HUSBANDS SISTER. SO TAKE A LOOK AT THE MOTHER OF THE GROOM AND CUT SOME SLACK TO THE YOUNG BRIDE. well first of all the bible ay to honor your mother. Even if she is wrong. You are to honor your mother! I have a mother inlaw who could care less about me but I tell my husband that that is his mother and he has to love her. Me and her don't have to get along but he does. Even though she don't care for me when she comes over I treat her with the utmost of respect knowing she could care less about my efforts. Always treat people how you want to be treated and quit worriyng about what someone has done to you and worry about how you treat others and have the peace of mind that what goes around comes around.
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