Messages By: anniekc

I was abused from 4 years old until I was 24 years old by my grandfather. I never had the option to confront him because he died. some of me whish i could but its too late. My family still don't know what happen those days. I finally told a friend i knew as a child. He use to touch me and couple times he did oral sex on me. But i never touched him. 

sorry if this is too crude thanks for listening and if any has some advice please let me know 

thank you 

 

I met my husband on ther internet and he is from Paksitan. But I also didn't rush and meet him with in months. It took me 3 1/2 years before i agreed and went to paksitan to marry him. It is hard because we have two seperate cultures but i love him so much. This girl and everyone should wait and see because it might be just a crush. I took my time and tested him too

 

I have been there. My grandfather molested me at a small age into my adult hood. He always was very relgious. Plus told me that all grandfathers love thier grandchildren they do this. My family doesn't know this. I am 30 years old now. I don't have the tools yet to forgive, and forget it. I have talked to a counsler about it all. My husband knows what happens. I hope this mother and child can go on and they need support from friends and family not looked as evil people