Messages By: fabrat

Quote From: juhoward

I am a woman, I have children. I think as woman I have the choice to have a baby or not.  Why shouldnt a man have the choice to be a father or not?

 

Its funny, when a person makes a mistake and commits a crime, the do a limited amount of time. But for men, they get a life sentence when they make the mistake of a unwanted pregnancy.

I think women  clearly make a choice wether they want to keep a baby or not, and I think they should own up to their reponsibility.

 

What happens if a man get a woman pregant and she doesnt want to keep it, does he have the right to say I want it.

 

Seems like a double standard. One person gets a choice. The other does not.

Quote From: pens2007

You did a show like this last year.  I know it must be hard to come up with new ideas but cyber bullying this week and text messages last week?  I always record your shows on my DVR but I only watch one to two a week due to subject matter.  Many of us have children that are grown.  You have had so many good shows in the past.  I can only hope subject matter will improve.

Quote From: cheryle65

Hi my name is Cheryle. Just writing briefly what I have been going through and hoping there is somebody else out there that has been through the same thing or still in a situation like me. hopefully i can get some help. I have been in a relationship for 7 years. I have 3 children 18, 21 and 24. They all have moved out of home due to all the things my partner had done to them. My kids are from a previous marriage. My partner used to do anything to make them feel intimadated, uncomfortable and scared.Now its down to 2 of my kids wont even come to visit anymore coz they dont want to go through that anymore. I also have 2 grandchildren which I was very close to and my partner used to scare the hell out of them. So my daughter doesnt bring them here anymore. If i want to see my kids , I go to see them. HE USED TO GO TO WORK AND TELL EVERYBODY BAD THINGS ABOUT ME AND MAKE ME OUT TO BE A BAD PERSON. Everybody ended up hating me coz of all his lies. This went on for years. But I have since spoken to those people and they have realized that it was all lies and said he is just a big liar and a conman. He has had an affair before, he also lies to me all the time

Whenever i ring my kids or they ring me , he makes smart comments and always puts us down. And when my son comes to see me, its like my partner hates me and doesnt want anything to do with me.He doesnt help me much around the house. I have told him that he expects too much from me and that im not his maid. But having done all this, he says he loves me.Look, I could go on and on. I could write a book. So many bad things have happened in my relationship. I am so confused and dont know what to do anymore. My health is going downhill due to all this.Hope there is somebody out there that can help.

Quote From: bcwlbm

I think that it was just plain wrong for Courtney to come on your show and use her daughter's "mental illness" as an excuse to leave her. Nebraska not only has the safe haven law that allowed her to do that, we also have one of the leading child behavioral institutions in the US (Boys and Girls Town). She might have been fed up, but she was not out of options to get her daughter help. The ONLY thing she accomplished when she left that girl at the hospital was giving her daughter even MORE reason to be defiant toward authority. After all, the one person who should have been there to protect and help her, left her. And when she said there aren't many mothers in America who have children with oppositional defiant disorder, that was a CROCK! There ARE many children that suffer from that disorder and their mothers don't just leave them at a hospital and walk away. You can't fix what you don't acknowledge and she was not able to acknowledge ANY wrong doing on her part with that little girl. I also do not remember ANY media reports that said that COURTNEY in particular should have used birth control, or should have never had children. Sickening. She didn't do anything but deepen the problems that her daughter was already fighting with.

Quote From: coolsister

What I don't understand is why the cops weren't standing at the exit door waiting to take these people into custody?

Quote From: kimintracyca

MY HUSBANDS GRANDMOTHER, WHO DID NOT REALLY CARE FOR ME AND OVER THE YEARS MADE IT VERY CLEAR, GAVE ME A PAIR OF BLACK SATIN PANTIES FOR CHRISTMAS ONE  YEAR. NO WAIT, THESE JUST WERE NOT REALLY PRETTY VICTORIA SECRET PANTIES, THEY WERE THE BLACK SATIN PANTIES YOUR GRANDMOTHER WOULD WARE.  THE ONES THAT WOULD COME UP TO YOUR BRA, AND HAD THE "PRETTY LACE" PIECES DOWN THE FRONT.  YOU THINK THAT'S BAD. IT GETS BETTER. THEY WERE USED. THE COTTON LINING WAS STAINED!!!  MY HUSBAND SAID "SHE IS JUST GETTING OLD".  I THINK SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOING.

 

KIM IN TRACY, CA