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January 19, 2006, 8:40 am PST

Aruba

Dear Dr. Phil, 

1st of all let me say I love your show and your tell it like it is additude, I am a tell like it is person myself.  We need to stick together!! I watched the show today, and am disturbed by the man representing Aruba tourism.  He needs to fired!!  His facial expression was almost a grin, sitting across from this poor woman who still has no answers about her daughter disapperance.  I was outraged. He gave her no answers.  Who cares about Holland law or aruba law.  There is someone missing and thats all that matters. Forget the rest.   

My daughter is 13 and attends a charter school. They recently took a trip to Hawaii, my daughter did not go for the simple fact of what is going on in Aruba!  I could not let her go because I was afraid the same thing might happen to her.  You cant trust anyone anymore!!  There is another trip planned for Boston, She is going on that one but only because I am going with her!!  My heart goes out to that poor lady who has no closure. I dont know how she keeps going. I have 2 children and if anything happened to either one of them I couldnt go on. Its a terrrible thing!  Someone has answers, and the 3 boys should be held until the answers are found!! 

 
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January 19, 2006, 11:11 am PST

01/19 Follow-ups

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Thank you for respecting Dutch and Aruban law! 

  

You are a sensible woman. You were right not to let your daughter go to Hawaii (US terrirory?), you are also right to accompany your daughter on her Schooltrip to Boston.  

  

Natalee and her friends went on a trip to Aruba, they got chaperonnes with them. Those Chaperonnes didn't do their job well, did they? 

  

  

Its not that I dont respect their laws,  Like I said someone is missing and thats all that matters!!  I can promise  That the 4 kids I will be responsible for Will not be out of my sight for a second!! Thats all it takes.....
 
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May 8, 2006, 8:27 am PDT

Boy Oh boy

Looks to me like someone ought to kick her in the .....Id like to take the stick and well you know  Those poor beautiful children and so intelligent too!!  She needs someone to treat her the way she has treated her children.  Maybe if she spent more time cleaning her cluttered house, she wouldnt have time to beat on her kids.  I am glad Dr. Phil is getting them all help. Every one says the children should be taken away from her, but then that might really make it worse on the kids, because then they would feel like it was their fault, for loosing their parents even if it was for a couple of weeks or so.  But is it worse for them to stay? Everyone has an opinion, Personally Id like to spend a few minutes with miss mean mom!!!!!
 
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May 8, 2006, 8:54 am PDT

05/08 A Mother’s Rage

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That's it... a promise from a "clueless" unemotional dad and family therapy?  HELLO... THIS LADY NEEDS TO GO TO JAIL!  DR. PHIL YOU CAN HELP HER FROM BEHIND BARS BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE SHE NEEDS TO BE!  *** NO JUSTICE ***  "OOPS, SORRY KIDS...  MOM BEAT YOU BECAUSE SHE IS SICK, YOU KNOW SHE HAS ISSUES WITH ANGER, BUT DON'T WORRY WE CAN ALL GO HOME TOGETHER AND HAVE A NICE HAPPY DINNER!  DAD'S GOING TO BE HERE TO PROTECT YOU NOW!!"  *** DID I MISS SOMETHING... HELLO DAD... DID YOU SEE THE BEATING (or as Dr. Phil said "torture") THAT YOUR WIFE GAVE OUT!  ***Dr. Phil, I am shocked that you are allowing this family to go back home together. 
Hello .......       dont you think Dr Phil will have someone checking on these kids to make sure they are okay , after sending them Home.   I think Dr Phil is alittle smarter than that !!!
 
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May 8, 2006, 9:17 am PDT

05/08 A Mother’s Rage

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It sounds to me like you are very sheltered. I would not be worring about her cluttered house. She more than likely was abused like that as a child. It's a vicious cycle. She needs help not people shunning her. And another point, have you ever been in the system? In a foster home? I have and I guarentee that would damage the kids worse. I agree they all need help, taken away? NO!! She really opened her eyes when she saw the video. It says something when she's the one reaching out for help. Did you even stop to think before you wrote? Most people don't. I have a stick. My kids get a swat when absolutely needed. I firmly believe in " spare the rod, spoil the child" . And the way I view this world today, some things just don't matter anymore.  I cried while watching todays show, but I saw a family needing imediate help, not more tragedy.
Its not about me, but I am not sheltered. If you would have paid attention to the show, the mother was abused she admitted that! And no I have never been in the system.  I also did not say they should be taken away. I said that could make it worse for the kids, then they would blame their selves for being taken away! Did you read what I wrote apparently not! When you get the stick out again, and hit your kids with it, Think about the show and how you cried!!! Things don't matter any more in the world because there are no morals.  Yes this family needs help!  Dr Phil will make sure they get it!! Sounds to me like you are sheltered, You are judging me and all I did was make an opinion Just like you and everyone else!!
 
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November 6, 2006, 7:17 am PST

PoorThing!

His main concern was being clubbed on the head after the show. Give me a break. Someone should club him for what he has been doing to his daughter I would do a lot worse than that to him. I am so glad I wasnt at the show. I know violence is not the answer but doesnt it make you mad how he sat on the stage and lied, shifting his eyes and moving around he acted awful nervous! He kept trying to change the subject and ask the Mom questions. Whats going to happen to this little girl and his unborn baby? Poor kid doesnt have a chance. I mean look at the mother she is in bars and smoking. and he has the nerve to say if anything is wrong with my baby! Neither one of those two deserve to be parents. I would take that little girl and they would never find us again! She would never have to be abused again! 
 
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November 6, 2006, 7:47 am PST

11/06 The Lie Detector

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R U Kidding?

He has an email that is registered as an anal something.

How gross and guilty he is. I think he should be arrestes immediately following the show.

He kept saying hedoesn't know much about the lie detector test, over & over. Yes he does and I knew it. If an innocent dad were being accused of such a monsterous crime, the behavior would be so different. It is SO obvious he is guilty.

 

I don't understand the mom, if she thought her daughter was being molested why didn't she take her to the dr's or ER at hospital to get a rape/dna done on her? I would have never let my child go for visitation after the first accusation. I don't care if the court ordered me to. i would do whatever I had to protect my child.

 

 

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January 26, 2007, 7:20 am PST

Bullies at School

My 14 year old daughter was also bullied so bad to the point where I had to move her to a different school. 3 times I went to the head master and assistant head master and told them about the gang of girls that seem to run the school and get away with what ever they want. Nothing was ever done about it. She was so miserable so I put her in another school. It seems to me that most bulling comes from private or  charter schools.Kid think they are better than others and their parents have the same mentality. The school just seems to think it will go away and does not want to deal with conflict. Oh no its a different story if its a son or daughter of a school teacher or board member, or high society member of the community, The something is done about it. One girl threatened to be my daughters a.. you know and another girl heard her (this is communication threat) She was expelled for 2 hours What a joke! Know one stops to realize how a child's self esteem is affected.My daughter seems to be doing better. Its a shame I had to move her to a different school, because the school didnt want to deal with the problem. Who knows who there picking on now!!
 
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February 8, 2007, 7:10 am PST

02/08 Flasher Exposed

Poor Doctor Phil This guy is a total Jerk! He keeps saying it was a disease and hes over it. Its just like drug abuse or alcoholism. There is always the urge to do it again No matter how much rehabilitation one has had. His girlfriend would not even look at him when he told her. Its as though he has some kind of hold over  her, and she didn't act surprised at all,  And what are her parents thinking letting her date a man this age! She is a kid and has not yet learned the ways of the world. She is a baby and if her parents cared about her they would no allow this man anywhere near here. This man is so full of himself he was even trying to Tell Dr Phil that he doesn't know because he hasn't been there Come on!! He kept saying he was on the show to help other people? This man has a serious problem flashing over 50,000 women, and having sex with over 7000 of them Why in the world would this young girl want to put herself through this! She has her whole life ahead of her!! Whats wrong couldn't he find someone his own age or has he already flashed and screwed them All!!!  If he really cared about this kid He would not put her through this. I guarantee You He will do it AGAIN!!!
 
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February 8, 2007, 7:12 am PST

02/08 Flasher Exposed

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Is it made of gold do you think? Maybe that's why he feels the need to "amaze" everyone with his member. LMAO!  I'm sorry, but this guy cracks me up. I just want to know what he tells himself everytime he does it? 

 

I have no doubt this is some kind of disorder but when I think of how hard he tried to convince everyone he's under control I couldn't help yelling at the t.v.   DENIAL YOU LOSER!..then I just started laughing again.

    

 

     AMEN!!!!!!!

 

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