ARE YOU KIDDING ME IF YOU DONT WANT TO HAVE A CHILD DONT HAVE SEX, IF YOU HAVE ANY MORALES YOU WAIT TILL YOU ARE MARRIED ANYWAY READ YOUR BIBLE! MY FATHER IF THATS WHAT YOU WANT TO CALL HIM TO ME HE WAS A SPERM DONOR, DIDNT TRY TO MEET ME UNTIL I WAS 17 YEARS OLD, AND IT TOTALLY CONFUSED ME, I KNEW HOWEVER THAT THE MAN THAT RAISED ME WAS NOT MY REAL FATHER. MY SO CALLED REAL FATHER CAME INTO MY LIFE AND MESSED IT UP BIG TIME INCLUDING TRYING TO GET MY MOTHER BACK EVEN THOUGH HE WAS MARRIED, HE TOLD MY MOM THAT THERE WAS NO MARRIAGE AND HE WANTED HER BACK SO AFTER SHE DIVORCED MY STEP FATHER GAVE UP ALL RIGHTS TO A HOUSE SHE HAD HELPED PAY FOR AND MOVED HALF WAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY HE CHANGED HIS MIND AND WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY OF US! WHY BOTHER IN THE FIRST PLACE EVEN TRYING TO GET TO KNOW ME? IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU HAVE TO PAY THE PRICE WHAT ABOUT THE WOMAN AND WHAT SHE HAS TO GO THROUGH BY HERSELF HAVING TO RAISE A CHILD? TO THE LADY THAT HAD THE PERFECT LIFE WITH THE HUSBAND AND 2 PLANNED CHILDREN LOOK AT YOUR KIDS AND PUT YOURSELF IN THE OTHER CHILDS POSITION WITH NO FATHER JUST MEASLY 350.00 A MONTH NO EMOTIONAL SUPPORT, NO NOTHING, TO THIS DAY I ASK MYSELF WHAT DID I DO WRONG? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO GROW UP LIKE THAT, BLAMING YOURSELF FOR A FATHER NOT WANTING YOU?