Quote From: dsteamnFINALLY SOMEONE ELSE GETS IT IN OUR SOCIETY TODAY!!!!
My mother never taught me about sex. Her explanation of french kissing was 'the male inserts his tongue into the female's mouth and they exchange saliva'. When I said that was gross and asked if Daddy ever did that to her, she turned all shades of red and said "Well, yes, but only on special ocassions." I knew asking about oral sex was ABSOLUTELY out of the question.
At 16, I used birth control to the best of my knowledge. If I had sex, we used a condom. If we wanted to do it again, we turned it inside out and used the other side - because there was spermicide on both sides - right? I stole a pack of birth control pills from a lady I babysat for and if we were going to have sex, I'd take one. When I got pregnant, I wouldn't let him touch me because I didn't want to have twins. I knew if we continued to do it, I would have a full litter just like my dogs and guinea pigs - who were always doing it. Funny but very sadly true.
When my daughter was 5, a neighbor had aC section. She came home hysterical and told me to call Aunt Maggie and tell her not to have her baby - the doctors were going to cut her stomach open and rip the baby out. After calming her down, I told her there was a special place babies come out - its called a vagina, and all girls have one. She wanted to see it, so I put her in the tub and showed it to her.
Through the years, I have had a comfortable open relationship with my kids regarding sex. My 17 year old son asked me what PMS was and if girls liked their nipples played with like his dog did, and we could talk about those things. My daughter felt comfortable enough to say she wanted to be on birth control. They brought their friends home to talk because they couldn't talk to their parents. I ALWAYS had parents encourage it because they were too embarrased. Why? Sex is nothing to be ashamed of - we all do it but no one can talk about it. It's crazy.
I was not nearly as open or graphic with my kids as these too ladies were, but I don't see anything wrong with it. They're not involved in the sexual practices or allow them to watch 'Mommy in th swing'. The body is natural and nudity in the home breeds acceptance of body image. You are comparing apples and oranges when you talk about their web site. That's an extra-curricular activity that they do in addition to their home life. Their kids are not on the site and showing it to the 14 year old who is old enough to understand takes away the curiosity. I applaud them for the limited use allowed on the computer. I trust they are monitoring where they go when they are on it.
As for my children? They are now 30 and 27. They adopted good and important principles. My daughter got through her teen years pregnancy free. My son was a virgin when he got married to a wonderful girl he dated for 6 years. He is college educated and an ordained minister at a baptist church (oh, did I forget to say they were raised in the church?). They have two wonderful children
Do I think the Moms are extreme? Yes. Do I think they go over the line - yeah, probably. I could not share my partner with someone else in my home, but if it works for them, who am I to disagree. Breastfeeding by two moms might actually be a convenience so they don't have to be tied to the baby 24/7. But it is their life and they are teaching the kids things they will learn about anyway. I didn't hear anything perverted or even illegal if you ask me. I didn't hear Dr. Phil bring up one bit of evidence that the children are not happy, healthy and well-adjusted. He always does his research in those areas, so they must be doing something right. Unfortunately, our society is so judgemental, that they won't think to look at that. They will only look at how these people choose to live their private lives in their own home.
Thank you Dr. Phil for bringing this topic to light.
