Hi All, and definite hello to Paul,
The promo for this show brought me here because I see many of the issues being discussed alive and well in my marriage, but that is a longer story I guess than needed here now. Glad to see you posting on here Paul to help us see what is going on.
As for those asking how someone can get that big. I weigh over 600lbs, how far over I am not sure and I am not sure I want to know. What I do know is that I do eat a lot, sometimes eating becomes about more than sustaining your body, for me it has become about feeling something, something good. Binging is an escape for me. It would be a lie if I said I did not love eating, at least in the moment. After a binge I definitely do not feel good about myself. I also eat to show my wife I appreciate the work she puts into cooking for me. She loves me as I am and tells me that often. I am afraid to let her know how I really feel, I know i have to but I am not there yet I guess. I also think that when you have forever been "the big man" in the group, it becomes what you are known for and known as. Not sure if any of that makes any sense.
Anyway, I look forward to learning more from these boards and seeing your episode this week Paul.
Thanks,
Dave
