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chillin'
February 20, 2006, 7:44 pm PST

hi

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giddy
February 21, 2006, 9:32 am PST

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"It makes other want to stay away from you."  Wouldn't that be what Dr. Phill would call the "payoff"??? 
lol  you  are so silly!!  i am telling the truth  about   what a bitch is..   its someone  with a attitude   problem!!!!!!!!!!!!     that thinks they are better then others..     i   am not  like that  , i am a christian!!  anyway  i am  not calling no one on here a bitch.  i   am just telling you  what a bitch is!!!    you  are  just upset because you know i am  telling the truth.  
 
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chillin'
February 21, 2006, 9:53 am PST

hello

hey,  well   sorry   if some of you  don't like the truth  about what a bitch is.    but a bitch is a person with a attitude problem  toward  others or life it self...     i   am not one, but i have met  some people who are. and i  stay  away from  them.     someone  being a bitch   is so   inmuture.   it not a way to get what you want in life  or   how to  make friends.    i think  it makes a person  inmuture  acting.
 
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giddy
February 21, 2006, 7:10 pm PST

thats what you think!!!!!!

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Dr. Phil told one of the girls yesterday that she was cute as a "spotted puppy".  As someone who used to volunteer in a rescue shelter, I know of several puppies that have been "humanely euthanized" because they had an attitude and a disposition like that. 

  

A bitch a Babe  

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                 Herself!!!!    Not someone who tries to control and belittle everyone around her. 

you are so wrong!  a bitch  is a person  with a attitude problem  and that thinks shes all that.  now that is what a bitch is. no body  likes a bitch...... it makes them  look  inmuture and  rude......  being a bitch  does not show that you are in control  of your life.....   it shows that you  are rude,bad attitude,mean,inmuture person!     if a person calls  you a bitch thats putting you down.   didn't you know that..
 
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frustrated
February 22, 2006, 7:10 pm PST

well

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You know what, the first time I ever heard someone call a lady a Bitch was when she was smart enough to turn him down when he was hitting on her. So tell me why turing a man down for sex makes a woman a rude, bad attitude, mean, immature person? 

  

I do believe there is a difference between what some people consider as Bitches!  I am a strong woman and I stand up for what I believe in and feel is right.  I have been called a bitch more than once and I am not always offended by it!  Sometimes just because someone does not agree with you they call you a Bitch or an Ass.  How does that make that person better than you?  I mean the one calling the names is the rude, bad attitude, mean and most definitely immature.  I mean name calling is kind of what kids do in school.  We are supposed to be adults and name calling is a bit below all true adults.   

  

I do not feel I have an attitude problem and I know for a fact that I am NOT all that!  I just stand up for what I believe and I fight for everything I want!  I have never ever been cruel or hateful to anyone.  I have, however stood my ground when I am being attacked.  I will do anything for my husband and our children.  So I suppose if that makes me a Bitch, I will wear that name with honor and go on with my life.  More times than not when someone refers to me as a Bitch I say "Thanks I do my best!" smile and move on with my life.  Now if my husband ever was to think I was being one then I would have to take a step back and reexamine what I was doing at the point that would make him feel that way!  As for most people in this world...I do not care what they think of me!  All that matters to me is that I have my friends and my family and they know what I am all about!   

  

Take Care, 

Dena   

well if a man calls you a bitch for not haveing sex with him. then  thats because all  he wanted was sex and it made him mad that you turned him down. thats all..  but  i still say  thats  what a bitch is.   you can stand  your  ground  without being a bitch about it.
 
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frustrated
February 24, 2006, 11:09 am PST

hi!

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If all you got from what I said is the part about the man with sex on the brain, then you missed my whole point!  I am just trying to point out that many people will call a strong woman a bitch just because she is strong or just for breathing!  I have corrected my own husband for that very thing!  I mean when you are driving down the street minding your own business and you may be going a bit slower than you should be someone will call you a STUPID BITCH...now tell me where the lady being called out her nakme is being rude, mean, etc.?  Have you never witnessed such...a woman who is NOT being bitchy but is getting called one just for the meer fact that she is a woman and someone has nothing better to do than call her that?!   

  

I think everybody has been guilty of that at some point or another....even me and although I am not proud of the fact I am willing to admit it.  To me the word is just that a WORD.  If someone calls me that it does not bother me...they may just be having a bad day and need someone to take it out on and I am the first one they come across to unload on!  Whatever their definition of a bitch is may not be what I consider to be a bad thing!   

  

You can be sweet as sweet is and if you disagree with some people the first thought (and ususally the first word) they have for you is to label you a BITCH!  To me that is just childish and immature.  I suppose that maybe you and I am prime examples of the point I am trying to make.....  people have differnet thoughts on what exactly constatutes being a bitch.  Yes, I do agree that when someone is being hateful, rude, mean, and somewhat immature they are being bitchy BUT they may not be a bitch.  We all have our days when we are a bit on the bitchy side but that does not give anyone the right to "label" us as one at all times!  That is what happens though.  What about all the times when we are nice, considerate, helpful, and accepting.....are we still Bitches since at one time we acted a bit on the bitchy side?? 

  

Thanks for your time!  :-) 

Dena 

  

hey, well    you  must run into the  wrong   people....   i   am a christian  and   when  i get mad at a person  i never call that  person a bitch.  for one its  being rude to call a person a bitch. that has really  not done anything  to   show  that they are one.   just because  they drive slow,or what ever!!  anyway   no reason  for you to get mad about  what i said.
 
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giddy
February 25, 2006, 2:43 pm PST

hello

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See now you are assuming that I am mad.  Not at all!  I was just tryingt o explaing to youmy point that you seem to keep missing.  All is cool!  I am sure you are thinking I am a bitch and you have not got reason for that.  We just differ! 

  

As for hte people I "run into" they are just normal everyday people...most of them I see coming out of a church on Sunday!  So being a christian does not mean you cannot lose your cool and belittle someone.  Only God is perfect so other than him and Jesus...I feel certain everyone has cussed or called someone out their name at one time or another!  Even if they don't wantt o admit it to the world, they must admit it to themself.  I sit in judgement of nobody and nobody should sit in judgement of me.  It is not only rude to call someone a bitch it is rude to judge people.  I just have enough "life" experience to know that in the world you have to deal with certain things and childish name calling happens to be one of them!  So does rude and hatefull people.  At some point you just have to laugh it off...turn the other check as God says! 

  

Have a good day! 

  

Just for the record I am still not the least bit mad about this conversation, but it must be getting to you...you are the one that started with the "frustrated" little face. 

  

Take care 

Dena 

  

  

  

lol   its not getting too me.   lol
 
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chillin'
February 27, 2006, 2:19 pm PST

liar,liar

hey,  well    you can't  trust a person  that lies or lies all the time!!!     lieing  is a sin!   you can not  keep friends!    because they  can not trust someone  that lies  all the time.    lieing  is so wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!     a person should  never lie.   always  tell    the truth...   no matter   if it hurts that  person or not.   its better to tell  them the truth then lie about things..
 
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chillin'
February 27, 2006, 2:28 pm PST

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I had a friend, she and I had been friends for about two years.We finally became roommates She told me about her past and said she wanted children,but just kept on having miscarriages. She made me feel so sad for her! Well one day she was so happy she was pregnant. I was so happy for her as well! She said she needed to be on bed rest her whole pregnancy,so that meant she needed to quit her job,stay in bed and not do any chores at all! Well she was my friend so worked and waited on her hand and foot. Well months were passing and she would not let me go with her to any appointments. I really got suspicious About her pregnancy when I wanted to at least see an ultra sound picture! She was just making one excuse after another, Finally the ninth moth of her pregnancy arrived and she was saying she had a feeling she was going to miscarry. Well I took extra care of her! Then one day a mutual friend of ours called and said she had some news. The news was she lied about being pregnant, I was dating a very nice guy, and she was jealous that she and I were spending alot less time together. She knew I am a caring person and would blow him off for a friend in need. Anyway I was angry and I just could not believe someone would lie for a little attention!
hi,   well   she was never   a   friend  in the first  place.     a   true friend  does not treat  their  friends bad or lie too them!!!    a friend  never gets jealous  of you.  if she does, then shes really  not a friend to you.   if i were you i  would stop being friends  with her and kick her out.... if thats the way she wants to be
 
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frustrated
February 27, 2006, 6:21 pm PST

lieing

hi, well    lieing  is wrong!!    if your boyfriend   lies too you.  you don't need him. if you are married and the one you are  married too lies too you.  you don't need him.    if a person is willing  to tell one lie  they will  keep on lieing.   its like  cry  wolf..      if a friend  lies to you stop being that persons friend....     because you can never trust that person  again..   
 

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