Quote From: rayvinfiveMy husband and I have been married for about a year and a half and we hardly ever have sex anymore. Part of the reason is that we also have a two year old. But for the most part the thought of him just doesn't turn me on. He's a great guy, but also very lazy and sometimes inconsiderate. Our schedules are also very different. He works overnight, and I'm in college. He is usually going to bed as I'm getting up.
Between our son and school, I'm just not interested in having sex with him at all. Recently we were having some major non communication. Later, after we talked it out, he admitted to me that he had visited porn sites in the past but was real vague about when the last time he visited was. This is my second marriage, and I feel more and more like I'm trying to raise two kids instead of just he two year old. We talk about what frustrates me between my husband and I, but nothing really changes. What, and how, can this issue be worked out? Any ideas/hints? We both want our son to have siblings.
I have been married for 3 years and have the same problem. I work night shift, he works days. I also am juggling school and a 2 year old as well. My husband and I never have much time for each other and to be honest he does not turn me on at all. I also feel like I am raising 2 kids instead of 1. I feel like my life is a mess swirling out of control. Since I work nights I need to sleep during the day and my husband does not understand that at all. He complains that all I do is sleep all day and sometimes can be rather harsh with his words. Sometimes I think living alone would be easier than living with all of this stress and unhappiness. But he is great with our son and I know my son really needs his father.
