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October 22, 2007, 3:41 pm PDT
Mollymgtc
Quote From: mollymgtcI know what this poor woman is going through, as I am a divorced (remarried a wonderful man) woman with two children, and have to constantly fight with my ex to stand up to his part of the responsibilities! It amazes that there are soo many men out there that do this.
My advice to Keri is this....I know it is hard, and it sucks to always have to make up for what the ex doesn't do, but for your kids sanity, it is worth it.
To keep my children balanced, I own up to everything he doesn't!
Give them everything they need, including love and stable home life...you have been doing this for six years, just realize it will never change, keep a diary of all the horrible things he does, and keep them as happy as you can! One day, he will get his, and your children will be able to look back, and say, my mom did everything she could to keep up safe and happy, all my dad every did was give broken promises, and excuses as to why he wasn't there....In the end, he will be lonely because your children will decide they want nothing to do with him, and they will eventually tell him that themselves...Keep your chin up Keri, make up for his lack of fatherhood, and you will be repayed, by your children loving and respecting you, and all that you have done for them! I wish you all the best! Molly, you sound as bitter as the woman on the show today. My younger sister was married the first time to a wonderful man and they had a beautiful daughter, he did everything for her, I seen it with my own eyes, she treated him very badly, always going out to bars looking for other men, so he finally had enough and met a nice woman who paid attention to him, my sister found out and started making up lies about him how horrible he was to her and her daughter, all lies, they divorced. She met another guy whom she totally pursued, married him, they had two daughters, for years she lied to me and the rest of our family about not only him, but about how nasty her two younger daughters were and how badly he treated her. She wanted to live the Cinderella life and made her husband and girls act like robots when they went to family functions, they had to be perfect,none of us could figure it out until she left him, and immediately started looking on the internet for another man, and her youngest daughter spilled her guts to my mom and myself and told us the whole ugly story of her lies, and how badly she treated her kids and her husband, and it was actually my sister who was abusive. I couldn't believe that all of us were duped by her. Well, now her oldest daughter is married, hasn't seen her real dad since she was 5yrs. old because my sister bad mouthed him so bad, and her two youngest girls will no longer have anything to do with her and live with they're dad. She tried suing the second husband for a lot of money saying he kept things of hers, well all of her belongings that she was suing for were at my moms, and my mom told the ex and he came and took pictures of all the things my sister lied about. So people, the moral of the story is, just because a woman is a mother, doesn't mean that she isn't a liar, and doesn't suffer from delussional paranoia like my sister. It isn't always the man's fault.
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