Messages By: kindaera

I find it extremely interesting that this would be the topic of the show now of all times. I have been married for 11 years. My husband has always been a computer person, but over the past few years he has gotten into online gaming and over the past few months it has gotten really bad. One Saturday night I came home from work to find him with the headset to the computer on one ear and the headset to the phone on the other ear with both microphones going down to his mouth talking into both of them. On a weekend he can spend 14 hours playing one game. I work on the weekends and I have to wonder if my kids are being fed while I am away. Our sex life has suffered greatly, because by the time he gets off of the computer he is too tired and just wants to go to sleep. My marriage is falling apart and I'm not proud of this but I have turned to other men just for that physical contact that is lacking from my husband. I hate being ignored and him choosing a game over his family. I have told him how lonely I am and that I want him to quit playing it so much, but he either doesn't care or doesn't realize how hurt I am.