Messages By: marye1965

Hello Ladybug, you are saying that putting tattoos on your skin is a sin. Since when did god say that? I have never heared of something like that out of the bible and I also think that god wouldn't say something like that. Not because I definately know what god says, but it's just my opinion. You SAY that it's a sin, so yours is more a statement. So I want to know, is yours a statement or just your opinion? And why? I mean, I understand that you think it's ugly, but why do you say it like it is the truth? You don't let other people get through you with their opinion. Maybe it would be good to try. Because if you won't listen to other people, people will keep arguing with you, and not listening to you. I hope you understand what I'm saying, and that this doesn't make you angry, because it's not my meaning to make you angry. It's still very wise of you to say that what's on the inside counts. That's a very good opinion.  

 When you said that it didn't matter that you got tattoos because you were planning on being a cosmatoligist I knew I had to say something. It is true that many in this field have tattoos and multiple peircings, but what they and you don't realize is that this will limit job options in the future. I am a liscensed cosmatoligist. I have work at several places where there were rules in place about how many piercings and tattos you could have. And at most Spas they do not allow facial percings (or they have to be small and conservitive studs) and you must keep all tattoos cover.  One spa I worked at we had an estitician who had tattos all the way down her arm and refused to keep them covered. On several occasions her clients would either ask for someone else or they would complain after wards and tell us they thought we were an upscale spa. She was eventually fired for her refusal to follow dress code. I know it seems unfair, and it is. But these spas main clientel is older woman with alot of money who come in weekly for facial, massages and to get their hair done. In the sevice industry you don't get to just do what ever you want. Your main concern has to be making the customer happy. If you don't, if you just say to hell with what everyone else thinks, then you will not be successful. That is why these companies have dress codes.  

Even the top stylist in the industry, thought they may have a few tattoos and a facial peircing or two, none of them are over the top with most of their body tatood. Because even they must show a level of proffesionalisim. They didn't get were they are today by not careing what others think. They are all about making their clients happy. That is why they are successful. 

You must  not have seen the same show that I did. None of this that you talk about gifts that the mother got was on Tv. Her skin and face may have nothing to do with anything you talk about.

They are NOT SISTERS but sister in laws. If you think Enza's life is better than where she is I think you are wrong. If Alex lived with Enza for 6 months she would be telling the same things about her if she could get anyone to believe it .

Grandma is probably tired of listening to all the drama that Enza is creating and just tired

As I said before You must have seen a different show