Messages By: zpek1949

I am a woman and but I have to defend that father in some areas.  First, I will say that the only blame I would place on him is how he chose to tell the child.  After all, she is a child, but I can understand that he allowed the bitterness toward his ex to get the better of him and consequently, he never thought about the child's feelings and the devastation it would have on her.

 

The ex wife was very deceitful.  She would never expect her husband to say, "I'm happy we are pregnant, but by the way is it mine"?  I believe that because the child has a bond with this man as her father, he should still be allowed to have that relationship if and when the child feels comfortable, but he should not be bound by any law to continue paying when DNA proved that this was not his child, he was deceived and he did not formally agree to being the child's father even he found out that she was not his.  The woman should be made to reimburse him every penny for her deception.  It's no better than someone cheating another person out of their property.  If the father knew this child was not his and still agreed to participate in this child's life as if she was his own, then he is totally obligated to continue with child support etc. 

 

Gloria Allred is just like a BULL DOG.  She should shut up.  She wants to blame this man, what about the biological father.  No one though about the emotional stress it might have had on this man when he found out that this child he believed was his turned out to be someone else's, and that his wife  was cheating on him.  That's why he made such a irrational decision to tell the child.  That's the only thing I disagree with him in his behavior.  Why isn't the biological father contacted to take financial responsibility for his daughter, or maybe the woman is not certain who the daddy really is?  Suppose later there is a rear condition and the biological father is the only person who could help?

 

It's women like those why descent women like me are not able to find great men.

I don't think the government should have to tell people what to wear, but since parents don't seem to have the authority to make sure that their children pull their pants up, then maybe the government needs to step in.  The father on the show who wears his pants low and allows his children to do likewise, stated on the show that there is nothing wrong with it, becase as they grow up their pant swill be pulled up.  Ok!  Well we can all assume that he still has some growing up to do since his pants are still not pulled up.  It's one thing for them to wear their pants that way, but I don't think that most people like to look at these boys underware.  That's why they are called UNDERWEAR.  They are supposed to be worn under your clothes.  Also, I think that someone on the show made a statement that it's comfortable.  How could that be considered confortable?  You have the underpants on the waist and the pants under your butt, while walking with both legs apart, inorder to keep the pants from falling.  If it's comfortable to have the underwear on your waist, why not have both the underwear and pants on your waist?  I think this is so disgusting to look at.  I don't know which Idiot came up with this nonsense, and then find a bunch of idiotic followers.  I am certainly glad my son is grown and does not find it necessary to dress this way.  Also, it makes them look like thugs,and yes they can easily hide weapons under those baggy clothes.  Could they walk into a business dressed this way and get a job?

 

Yes, some women/young girls need to cover up also.  This is only the flip side of the baggy pants.  I would put both dressings in the same category.  That father on the show needs to stand up and set an example and set some boundaries.  That's what being a parent is all about. Not joining with the kids and giving them their way, knowing that it could eventually be to their detriment.  Teaching your childrent to dress this way, will not give them the know-how to dress properly when they are ready to go for an interview.   However, to each it's own.  I just don't want to look at peoples underwear........and most of them look extremely nasty anyway.

Listening to this show and watching these thieves, makes me angry.  Not to be racist, but I truly believe that they get away with it, because while they are over yonder pilfering these business and getting away with it, the people who are being carefully watched and followed are blacks and other ethnic minority.  Specifically a black person enters a store he is being followed and carefully watched, yet whites shoplift more freqently and steals larger and more expensive items.  A survey was done a few year ago  which was made public on 20/20 showing that whites shoplift more than any other race, yet they are never closely watched when they enter these businesses.

 

If my son enters a store he would be followed and watched, yet he is one of the most honest persons I know.  It happened when he was younger and we were together, and I had to tell the store clerk to take a good look at him, because he would never steal from this store or any other.  He needs to go watch his white counterparts who are on the other side pilfering and leave us alone. 

 

That girl who thinks that she is not jail material, needs to do time.  If you are a thief, you are jail material.  Apparently Dr. Phil thinks that he can save the world, by getting all these low-down white trash on his show and then tell them that he can supply them with the resourses they need to do and get better and then readily assume that they are not bad people.  Most of them I think, just find a reason to be on TV, because they have been doing whatever they are doing for their whole lives. Why do you think they are going to ever change?

Why is it that people, particularly white people like to pass off their bad behavior as having some type of sickness/disease?  He is just a THIEF and a PROMISCUOUS person.  Just like Drunks and drug addicts who think that they have a disease?  THOSE ARE ADDICTIONS, NOT DISEASES.  A disease is something you can't help happening.  An addiction is something that a person does to him/herself....HE IS A THIEF......Lighten up.....call it what it is.