Hi, everyone. I just want to let everyone know that I’m sorry for going on such a rash here, if I offended someone; I do apologize. Plus, know that I don’t hate anyone, and that I care about everyone. I’m been thinking about this all night last night; & it took me quite a while to write my paragraphs. And with that, this is my final say, & my final post in this topic.
Brandi: Sweetie, I know it’s hard to admit to everyone (including your family) for what you done, but for everyone’s sake, please confess to what you did. Trying to cover everything up is only going to make it worse for everyone than it already has. I know that you fear your parents might hate you for lying to them all this time if they found out the truth, but know that you’ll always be their daughter, no matter what. In time, they will heal & forgive, & if you ever expect to be out on Parole, you’re going to have to admit everything you did, & show true remorse for it. Then, & ONLY then, can both families begin to heal for the pain. Also, confess to God for everything that you done wrong, & mean it with all your heart. Only then can God forgive you for everything you done. Best of wishes to you, & hopefully, you have learned your lesson from this.
Brandi’s Family: I know that it’s hard for you to accept that your daughter could commit a crime like this, but she did do it, whether it was accidental or not (& I truly believe that it even was an accident). And that’s something you’re going to have to accept. For pete’s sake, please stop enabling her to lie, & accept that she has to accept the consequences for what she’s done. Plus, stop attacking Daniel’s family all the time, as you’re not helping matters any for continuing to do so. And if you haven’t, PLEASE, get help for your son ASAP. Because if you don’t, he could turn out to be the same way like his sister (your daughter). Losing one child in jail for a crime is already bad enough as it is, so please do this for him. Also, get counseling so that you can fully understand what’s going on, & that you can start to heal from this. Please don’t hate your daughter for what she’s done, as she’ll need your help in the long run. Best of wishes to you, & good luck.
Daniel’s Family: Please, please, PLEASE, let go of your hate & anger that you have towards Brandi. I’m sorry for the loss of your son, as you have my sympathy for that, & I know you’re angry for what she did, but nothing you can say or do is going to bring Daniel back. Unleashing your anger towards her & her family will only make things worse. I’m telling you this for your sake; please forgive them. Because if you don’t forgive, then God will never forgive you. Remember what the bible says, “You must love your enemies”. You need to also get counseling to handle the pain, & to accept the fact that he’s gone. In time, you’ll begin to heal from the pain & anger & forgive Brandi & her family & to move on from this. Best of wishes to you & good luck with this.
Stephanie: I’m sorry for the way that everyone’s been treating you here on this board, & I applaud you for coming to this board & being woman enough & having the guts to key us in on what’s going on. Even which some things may not be true & that you might not remember everything of what happened (& I can deeply understand because this was 6 years ago, & that Cablekidz helped you), I do sympathize with you, because you been trying to help us out here. I’m sorry for the loss of your ex, plus I salute you for being an anti-Brandi hater, as you said that on your other post(just do forgive Brandi, though). You handled it very well, & I don’t care what anybody says, you’re a awesome person in my book. Good luck to you, your family, & your marriage.
To everyone here: I’m sorry if I had gone out on such anger at you, as I now understand that everyone is entitled to their opinions about this. Once again, please accept my apologies. You’re welcome to E-mail me anytime; my E-mail address is in my profile.
There you have it. And that’s my final post in this topic.
