Messages By: gimlet

I had a wife just like todays i would work a 2nd shift job when i left a 4 30 she would be out the door to her boytoy everybody in town knew it but me when it was time to cut the string she started fighting with me to get me to lose my temper then kicked me out it was the best thing that ever happed to me im married again to the sweetest gal ive ever known my ex her boytoy left town  shes married again shes managed to get his kids all kicked out and its just the two of them my kids spend more time with us thats the way she wants it and thats ok with me there good kids!!!!!! 

My wifes ex husband was a drinker and did a few drugs also but vodka was his baby.She left him over it when he chose it or them anyway he went in and out of treatment over the years and never could stay sober more then a month it use to upset the youngest girl to the point that she didnt want to go see him on his weekends ! then one weekend we got the call from the hafeway house he had fell down the stairs and died! ! They wanted to hush it up but we had already ask for a report when we got it sure enough he had been drunk we didnt show the girls the report that would have been to much for them but thats not all that it showed he only had weeks to live his liver was hard as a rock. so it saved him a slow death. 

 Im the brother inlaw of a man that was never home to watch his 2 kids grow up because he was always working he had a stay at home wife and thats how they wanted there kids to grow up 1 girl 1 boy . Well now he regrets its and is have a hard time with his life he depressed and hes working 6 days a weeks some times 7 just so he can cover up the pain . WHY ! A year ago in oct he lost his son at 34young years just as they were getting along better to a IED IN IRAQ  they were having a better father son life matt was gitting ready to come home get married start a familiy  spend more time have fun hunting w/dad just doing the things dad and sons do now theres heart ack because he blames himself for not doing those things when they were kids ! There has been a bright side the daughter who was never going to have kids has had little boy who she has named after her brother and he is grandads boy and all the rest of the familiys .My point is spend every day as it is your last your not going to be able to make it up down the road no mater how hard you try.!!!!

I have to agree with the high school kid we have had black kids over to our house and i would have too say 85% of the kids 12to 20 use the n word all the time or at least when they sing there rap we ask them not to use curse words in our home and they for the most part respect us ! We are one of the few parents that let them hang around here ive done that just as my parents did for me when i was growing up we have had a few bad apples but for the most part they do good when there here ! but that word is used all the time when i was in the groc bis.grown adults would use it to there sons no mater what age so if these so called black leaders want change they should clean up there house first !! I caught alot of shoplifters in my day it was about  50/50 black /white  never in my 35+years did i have a white person say your stopping because im white but  at least 2 a week i would stop a black and that would be the first thing out of his lips till we told him to pull the product out of his pants,coat,or shirt. so clean up your act before you throw stones there are bad apples every where.