Messages By: poodlepink

 I'm glad you pointed out that if you're not ready to have children you're not ready to have sex because it seems people have come to believe on some level that we can't be expected to control ourselves. Do these same people marry still believing when they need sex they HAVE TO HAVE IT!!?? 

 when a young girl and guy get together a lot of times it's just for fun on both parts, but in our society we seem to always think the girl must've wanted a baby. I'm sure that after she's gone through her nine months of 'paying', with the morning sickness, watching your body morph, back pain, the stretching of the abdomen not to mention the birth!! After all that, and some things I've missed she's ready to talk to the Dad about child support and she's asking,"Why am I the ONLY ONE PAYING!!" 

 And the matter of women having a choice and the man doesn't. That's because the kid's in her and she's the one suffering already paying, that's the only way she can give up her rights! She can't just sign papers and the baby appears in the father's arms!! Men must be sure to put their children in women who want children! Finally!! In the past, before d.n.a. it was just,' no, I've never seen her before,' and the woman had all the responsibility.  

I sure hope they can figure out which women really are lying and which ones aren't because as soon as they pass a law that men that were tricked into a pregnancy don't have to pay for their own flesh and blood child, a million loser men will stand up and say their lover lied.  

 It is a truly bizarre notion that there are women who just decide they'll sacrifice their bodies, and all they go through during pregnancy, much less the diaper changing, caring for a sick or difficultchild, all for frickin $500 a month?? That's absurd to believe things like that. But young men and women do get 'excited' for each other. That's right, women have a libido too and it's time we admit it!!