Messages By: mcknightcj

hi my name chelsea and I"m 26 yrs old and a stay at home mother of  four. I have a 5yr old, a 6 yr old, a 2yr old, and a 2 month old. I've been married twice and this is my second marriage. I've been married to my husband for almost four yrs. When we first got together we only had the 5 and 6 yr old, and we use to have sex every night. Then about two yr had gone by we had our first child together. While i was preagnet with our first baby i did not want to have sex allot. After i has our first child i still did not want  to have allot of sex either.Then we just had our last baby this year and when i was preagnet with this child i still did not want to have sex that much either. Now i still do not want to have sex allot either. My husband is 29 yrs old and he tells me that their is something wrong with me cause i do not want to have sex at least three to four times in a week or in a day. He also accuses me of cheating or that i do not like men or that i"m gay because we only have sex once a week. I tell him how am i suppose to fine time to cheat when I'm taking care of all the kids cooking cleaning and running areins and taking kids to school and working three hours at night. He tells me you could find time if you wanted to cheat bad enought, he also told me the only reason to get married is so you can have sex all the time. He thinks about sex 24-7. He always complains that he never gets any sex at all. He also talks about our sex life to the other guys at work. The other guys tell him they get sex when ever they want. He also get mad because i will not have sex with him durning the day while all the kids are here, I tell him that is not approate for the kids to see or hear. He has also told me if i do not start having sex with him more that i need to get out or he will go some where else. He also said that most women should be horney when they are pregnet. The other night he wanted to have sex while our two yr old son was up and lying in our bed. is it me or is it him that is not right. Please help me and tell me

 I know what you are going throught I am to a mother of four and I am 26 and have been married to my husband for almost four yrs. I take care of all the bills and kids and cleaning and cooking and ariens and appointments and on top of that I go to work at 1am to 4am. My husband thinks about sex all the time and talks about it all the time. We almost always get into fight about not having sex and if it is not that were fighting about then were fighting about bills and money. I to have a bad habit of pushing my husband away when he is trying to love on me cause I think then he is going to turn it into something sexual instead of just cuddling. He always tells me that their somthing wrong with me or he says he never gets it at all. We have sex once a week. when we first got togther we had sex every night. So just to let you know it is not just you that feels this way  

                                                                                                                                               chelsea