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November 28, 2007, 4:00 pm PST

Stressed in Canada

Hello All!

 

I am so stressed and wish I had a punching bag right now.

 

I moved from NY to Canada when I married my husband and I'm very happy.  However, I am finding myself to be very disappointed in the health community out here.

 

As a woman, I was encouraged and lived by getting my annual pap smear 1 per year and  until I came here 5 years ago, I did.  My doctor in Canada will not give me one and his reason is " you are not promiscuous" 

 

I had to go to emergency and decided to ask the doctor who was seeing me as to how the routine of a pap smear is done her and was advised either yearly or every two years.  I informed him of my situation and he chose to tell my current doctor.

 

Had an appointment today for refills on medication and was approached by the office manager in the waiting room (no other patients there but me and the only other person in the room was the secretary) who told me the hospital was in contact with my doctor and that I would get a pap smear today (advised I could not due to my "monthly") - was told to leave the office and that my refills would not be done.

 

I am so hurt and angry that I just want to scream! I can't believe there is no such thing as doctor/patient confidentiality and that my doctor until being pushed, would not give me a pap smear!  I needed to get this out  of my system and I appreciate anyone who reads this and supports me as I figure out what to do next...

 

Debbie

 
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November 28, 2007, 4:05 pm PST

I will talk

Quote From: cinderella34

11/14/07


Hello. I am a 34 yr old female, trying to find a friend to talk to.

I want you to know, I will NEVER devulge my real name or where I live, so please dont ask. Sorry, but thats my boundries.



So if you can deal with that, and  you are a RESPONSIBLE ADULT, then write to me.


 I am at the end of my rope, hanging by a thread.


I am struggling everyday with ....well alot of hard issues, and I cry every single day, and try to forge through it. I only thought I had alot of problems before...but then November of last year my panic attacks got SEVERE, and I have been having problems controlling my balance ever since. I am freightened beyond control. It really stinks. It interfears with all of my daily tasks. And please dont try to scare me with diagnosis, I am FA-REAK-ED OUT enough as it is.



Thank you for your time.


PS. If you believe in GOD, I ask for your prayers, even though you dont know me,  HE does.


Sincerly,


Cinderella34


I don't mind talking if you need someone to listen to.

 

I won't ask any question about name or location and I don't do diagnosis so if you want to chat, I'm here. 

 

I can relate to the panic attacks - have them myself - I hope that they get better for you soon. 

 

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