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March 31, 2006, 5:35 pm PST

03/31 Love Smart, Part 1

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Dr Phil, It must be easy to select the prettiest woman that write in and fix them up with dates. How about us "older" women? The ones that have been married before, or are overweight, or have a health problem? Do we just give up on love because we are not pretty enough or young enough? I am a 55 year old twice divorced woman who would love help to meet suitable men but your shows are always about fixing up 20 somethings and they are all attractive. I don't scare babies and with the right makeup and hair style I can be presentable but I will never be that woman in her 20's that can meet a man and have him tripping all over himself to give me his number. So should I just give up on having someone in my life because I am less desirable?
 As an almost 63 year old I'm glad to see some other posts from 'older' women who think we are underrepresented on shows like this one.  I definitely would like to see a program about Love Smart that addresses our 'unique' problems. I'm not even interested in getting married again--just looking for someone who would enjoy sharing his life with me, going places, etc. I've lived on my own for 30 years so I don't need someone to take care of me (hmm, is this part of the problem?) I have girlfriends to do things with but most of them have husbands so they aren't always available. Come on Dr. Phil, do a show on "geezer dating"!!
 
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July 30, 2008, 3:09 pm PDT

I definitely agree

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That feels like this lady is doing some of this for attention??? I'm not saying she's lying, and I belive this guy needs to be in prison, but my family was in an abusive situation with my father years ago and I can tell you, not only would my mother not take pills like that, she sure as hell would not have called HIM for help. It all seems a little fishy to me on both sides...
     One of Dr. Phil's quotes I've taken to heart is "the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior". This woman had children with Wade before they were married and must have known about lots of  his previous affairs.  She also knew about his problem with pornography long before all of this came up just before the show.  If it were me  I would have taken the children and run like hell and  then called the show, etc., not check with my sister, his uncle, and hang around waiting to see how many times he called or maintaining contact with him.  She appears, naive, immature, and out for sympathy and attention.
 

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