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November 15, 2007, 9:00 pm PST

Him Using Her??

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 I think this girl maybe brainwashed why would she stay with a dude that is abusive? I think he is just using her to get a greencard. I am betting dollars to doughnuts she had already elopted with this dude.  Her mom needs to get her daughter out of this quick before something real bad happens to her.

Excuse me- how can he possibly be using Katherine? What purpose is there for him doing that to her?

He has not been trying in any way to get a visa to go to America, so how would he ever get his "green card"? I really think he is just using her for his own pleasure, and not for the sake of marrying her or loving her. I do hope Dr. Phil gets her to come back home, if Abdullah really loves her, then he will smarten up and get his visa. Remember what his name was for "My Space"? He called himself "Psycho". so has anybody explored that idea,  that maybe he is a psycho, and may harm Katherine rather than let her go home? Lets' hope we get some updates on this show, and let us know what happens and what the future holds for Katherine. We all know that girls are very hard to raise, they would rather just do their own thing, without any consequences to pay. I can understand what this mother is going through, the same as I have with my daughter, very stubborn, wanted her way all the time and did not give a darn what her family said. Now, she is using drugs, divorced, remarried, gave up custody of her 3 kids, and the family has nothing to do with her anymore after all the trouble we have been through with her and her using drugs. Thank You

 
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January 17, 2008, 12:03 pm PST

Very Mad and Upset

 

You know how many emotions I went through watching this show? I am so glad that Robin came and held Michaels' hand, and could you see the tears coming from Michael? Why is he being so mistreated, what did he do to deserve this? Yes, teenage years is a difficult time for the kids, but then you also have to understand the situation with maybe what teens are going through themselves.. Is this the only child in the family? How can a mother and stepfather be so cruel to Michael? I could never ,ever treat my sons the way Michael is being treated. I always hold my sons, give them a hug, a kiss and tell them how much I love them, no matter what. No, I am no "angel" mother, have had my trials and tribulations with my children as well, but no matter what, they know they are loved everytime they leave the house. Please somebody help Michael to get out of this situation, and try to have some resemblance of what life is, without the screaming and fighting going on. Michael, I wish you all the best, just wish you could come and live with me and get all the love you deserve. Thank You

 
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July 16, 2008, 2:14 pm PDT

Bully Husband

 

Would somebody please tell me what is wrong with that woman? Why has she not left the bully a long

time ago. She is not being treated like a wife, nor even like a woman. There is no way that I would ever

stay with a guy that treated me that way, never!! I have never know anybody in such an abusive relationship, and if any of my friends were being treated like that, I would certainly butt into their life, and tell them to get the heck out of that.

As for the husband, let him go and find somebody else to bully around. This is doing the children no good to be in that situation as well. Please woman, get the kids out and away from that man as well.

We do not know what goes through kids minds, but they certainly do not have to be around the nonsense that is going on. Children are very suspectible to what goes on in the house, and have nobody to talk things over with. I would also get the children into counselling as well, as their little minds have got to be warped enough by that man that calls himself "Father". I cannot believe that she would leave the kids with the bullier, why even say that on the show. Where is your self respect woman, to leavethe kids with him. You are working, so you must be able to afford another place to live for yourself and the kids.

But, please, lady get out, and stay out, you are certainly a good looking woman, and can find somebody that would love you for who you are. The husband said that deep down he loves you, big deal, why not just tell the truth and let the world know, you have no respect for your family, and that you honestly do not love your wife?

Please, I beg of you, get out lady and take the kids with you, and you will find yourself a much happier person, and your childen will benefit more by you divorcing that guy!!

Please listen to me, I know of what I speak!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 
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July 16, 2008, 2:21 pm PDT

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This was my live to the "T" for 11 years.  I worked a full time job, raised two kids almost alone.   One with special needs.  He was mean and controlling.  This was my  life, the weight ( He was pushing 500 before the divorce, I was 150)  He "moo-ed" at me regularily.  He was controlling about the house work.  He had affairs. He told me where to go and check the grocery reciepts line by line. He called my daughter a b----- like her mother.  He called me b----- and whore DAILY.  He was the one cheating.  I had only been with him- ever!  Well, one week before Christmas, he left due to another affair.  I was devistated.  Once  I got over the insecurities, I am doing great.  I had to ask for assistance from programs and now I an almost out of the slump.  I am going back to school so I will not be as dependant on a man again.  And just so you guys know, he has since came to my door stating he is done being a father and wants nothing to do with the kids.  It is very hard getting out of these relationships, especially when the self esteem is belittled and when your raised to biblically thik divorce is wrong.
Hi there, I am so glad to hear that your life is getting straightened up, and that you have seen the results for yourself about a man that did not really want you, or the kids. Life may be hard for awhile, but please carry on, perservere, and you will find love and happiness in the end. Your children do not need a father like that, and if he denounces his rights to the kids, then fine, they do not need a father like that. I just want to wish you well, and know that you will find the light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck to you, I applaud you!!
 
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October 28, 2008, 1:57 pm PDT

Broken Trust

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I've watched Dr.Phil since he was on Oprah. He treats stupid as a gender neutral disease.

 

If you do not like any part of the shows, please go and turn off your TV and get on with your life.

 
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October 28, 2008, 2:08 pm PDT

Broken Trust

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I appreciate your insight and you make some very good points but are you saying that you would be ok if your husband had a very expensive meal with and ex even after complaining about how money is getting tight etc.? I had come to terms with the supposedly short visit but the elaborate lies ??? I know I have to address my insecurities but his solution to my reservations was lieing. We are going to get counseling but he did have a choice to tell me the truth or to handle things differently. I am happy for you that you seem to be well adjusted. Perhaps your life experiences have been different than mine.

 

You know I never thought my husband would go behind my back and do anything either, but just

found out that for the past year, he has been having an affair. Please do not keep trust in your marriage, as it will rip your heart out as mine has been when I found out. I trusted my husband

completely, until he just decided he was not getting enough sex from me, then off he went on his merry way when I had gone out of town.

I am really trying to forgive him, as he said he does not want a divorce, but has not told me what he

really wants from me. I can say, that trust is gone, marriage is teetering on staying together or my

leaving. I told him from now on he goes where I go, simply because I cannot trust him to stay home by

himself any longer. This is working so far, do not know how long this will last, but will keep you

updated. But, divorce is always in the back of my mind, no matter what he wants. So, am just playing the game with him so far. My heart is already torn apart, nothing else will ever heal my heart, not putting trust in him either.

 

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