One of the most important things that I'm learning in this relationship that I'm currently in, is the importance of the friendship involved. I never even new what that meant till..recently. You can have the chemistry still and the feelings that go along with it, but the getting to know each other is so important. People tend to wanna jump clear to third base, and not bother.. getting to first:)
There are necessary steps, that I found to be beneficial..in not being in a hurry! At times I wanna just throw in the towel and say...screw it:) Timing.. is so of thee essence! One of the biggest draw backs in my situation is, that he lives 2& half hr's from me:( So we don't get alot of time together. We are working on..four monthes in to a relationship. We are so much on the same page, have alot in common & so incredibly compatible, sexually. We are so in sinc when we are together, it's almost uncanny? Dr Phil has taught me so much. I know what he means when he say's," you have to get real & honest with yourself?". Changing from the inside out? It's a full time job making all these changes..but its so worth it! I'm 47 yrs old and I have never been in love or ever in a healthy relationship, looking back in retrospect! I owe it all to Dr. Phil!!
This relationship that I am in now. I have learned so much, being patient , having fun together and laughing. Being yourself is number one! If this is what love is like...WOW. I need to pinch myself!
