When two people have the kind of sex that can result in conception, they are responsible for the result. If one of them lies, just remember..."let the buyer beware".. If one person absolutely does not want a child, then it's the responsibility of that person to protect against conception as best they can. If that's still a gamble then they are still responsible. I raised my two kids without any help whatsoever from either their father or the government ( I didn't have the bribe money. and at that time you needed it. A good thing it's mostly changed now.) I can tell you it ain't easy.
If you're driving down the road with as safe a vehicle as you can have and with quality driving instruction and experience behind you and as sober and awake as you can be, it's still a gamble because someone could still hit you and injure you or a tree could fall on you or rocks could slide down a hill or etc. You can't say this injury is not mine, because you took that chance when you drove down that road.
Don't even get me started on abortion. In my opinion abortion is not a legal issue because if you make it illegal the alternative is unthinkable. Education is the answer and responsibility. Abortion and abandonment are not birth control folks!
I do hypnotherapy and I can assure you that as least some people can recount their time in the womb from very early on. They can even tell you the emotions and language of their parents. I think people need to be educated and responsible. I can't believe half the stuff I hear coming out of their mouths on the Dr.Phil show.
even with the buyer beware policy you have the "CHOICE " to throw it away or give it away
when i was 25 my then boyfriend knew that i didn't want to have kids until i was thirty. i was on the pill and he was using a condom, but he had put a whole in it. i had been given antibiotics for strep throat , so i got pregnant, and he know i felt about it. later after i gave birth to our daughter, he told me he got me pregnant on purpose. i was 25 and he was 42.
we got married and divorced a year later. and i still feel like i was betrayed and used.
yes. men do have a choice, to use a condom or not. when i got pregnant 12yrs ago i used birth control. i feel i did my 50% part of the responsibility, now here is where the mens part comes in, you need to take the other 50% part. a women or man is never guaranteed not to have a baby w/ unprotective sex. to the man on the show, this is a lesson learned and hope you can live the rest of your life not regretting it for the sake of your daughter, suck it up and be happy, you only have one life to live and its not the end of your life
you shouldnt hgave let a guy stick an unprotected penis in....
