Messages By: katy_brown

Quote From: nadovah

You hit the nail on the head, woman have fought for equal rights, Matt just wants the legal right to leave the baby at a safe haven and give up all custody and financial responsibility just like every other woman has.  It doesn't sound like he hates the baby or wishes harm, he knows he doesn't want to be a father in any sense of the word.  When a women decides she doesn't want to be a mother the law doesn't force her to be.   Again, it makes me sad to think someone would not want thier own baby....but it is what our constitution guarantees.  We can't just fight for it when it suits us.  As for being ashamed of a son, I would want my son to have the choice but I would raise him to make the right choice. 

  

There is no reason to get angry with people who are pointing out another side to this issue, most of us are sad this is even necessary to discuss but some of us have legal backgrounds and look at it from a legal and constitutional angle not a personal one.  Everyone has a right to their opinion but it's like abortion if you don't believe in it teach your family our belief, but the rest of the country has a right to their beliefs. 

Quote From: julesbabies

Dr Phil,  I realize Im surely one of the very few in America that would believe in Drews innocence.  You see Ive known Drew since he was a very young man and although his arrogance and sense of humor come off as psychotic and narcissistic, I cannot belive he is capable of such crimes.  I cannot answer the obvious, such as why hasnt Stacy or her "missing" companion surfaced, or why would she leave her children.  But I also cannot answer why would a middle aged man choose to raise 4 small children on his own without a young beautiful wife?  Drew has always been kind of nerdy but funny and has anyone given him credit for helping to raise his two grown sons responsibly, or providing for his present family or even being an honored police officer all of these years?  I realize there are stories in everyones lives that can make a person appear on the outside to be a horrible person but look at the overall picture and know Drew and his first wife as I have and it is not feasible that he has done this.