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April 21, 2006, 1:55 pm PDT
Matt splat
Blah, blah, blah...men would feel the same way women do if the roles were reversed...as it is, YES...it is wrong to tell a man that you are on birth control AND can't have children if you can...if it really was an act of God, and the mother wasn't lying, then count your blessings & embrace this miraculous new life....BUT, nonetheless, the bottom line remains...sex should be something two married people enjoy. Because it is accepted as normal to perform sex outside of marriage, there are FAR MORE problems than ever revolving around sex...be it prostitution (including children being prostitued out), or disease, or unwanted children, or whatever...if you don't want ties to someone, then don't have sex with them, end of story. Whether you know it, want to admit it, realize it, or not, you are joined to everyone you have sex with, and it was not meant for people to have "casual" sex...these are the problems that result from a misguided & morally thwarted people. Matt, suck it up...I feel your pain...I understand your stance...but that baby is here now...so instead of trying to give men, yet another excuse to be deadbeat dads, whether or not that applies to you, why not instead address the issue at hand, and make one less child feel like their life is a disappointment to someone...
Signed,
Someone who understands how your child will one day feel
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