Messages By: all4horsez

I think he gave up his right when he did not use a condom.  Even if she told him she couldnt get pregnent, doctors tell people all the time that they cant get pregnet and they do.  So should the doctor be sued for a miracle?  This guys should have used protection regardless of what anyone has to say if "He was not ready to be a father."  He should still have to pay for the child since he did not take action to protect himself.  Actually even if he did use a condom he is still responsable for his actions.  Or DONT HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!    The child will be better off having him NOT in her life. 

He did make a decision and that was not to protect himself and to have sex before he was married.  No One other then the two of them were in the bedroom when this was supposedly discused so dont believe everything you are hearing.  If it was as easy as saying "I told her I didnt want kids" to get these losers off the hook, most men would do it.  Come on now 

If he DID not want a child he should have had surgery to make sure HE couldnt have a child, otherwise the only way to guarentee that you dont is NOT to have sex at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Isnt that something you learn in school.    Guess he was absent from school that day!!!   

 GOOD JOB!! 

Hi my name is Tammi, I have a 4 yr old son who was diagnosed with PDD 2 yrs ago.  We have done therapy in the home and full day emotional handicap classroom and is finally beginning to talk.  My son (Nicholas) has NOT slept through the night since he was born!  We may get 1 night a month (if we are lucky)  He is up every hour.  We live in a state that we are FAR from all of our family, so it is just my husband, my 15 yr old son and myself.  Although Nicholas goes to school full time, he may make it once or twice a week.  Due to not sleeping at night , And we have been seeing specialist(s) for stomach problems (since birth) (chronic diarrhea & stomach pains)  We still have not been able to find a doctor to help fix this problem.  The only thing we found out is that he is Fructose intolerant.  (yeah fun, try to find things that do not have it) With his sensory issues Nicholas does not eat ANYTHING, in his life he has never eaten any kind of meat, chicken, pasta, veggies.  Nicholas lives on PB&J!!!!!  And we still have the same stomach problems.  We are trying to find a doctor that can help!  If anyone knows of a great doctor please help us.

Thanks for listening.

My son was diagnosed with PDD when he was 2, he is now 4 and we have done therapy at home and full day emotionally handicap pre-k.  His talking has come along way but behavior has not.  We have a few OK days and then we have alot of days that are just not good.  As someone else stated your sister may be able to apply for ssi/disability depending on her income (they go but what you make) (doesn't make much sense to me though)  As for the insurance yes she was lucky to get help with somethings.  I hate the fact that because this is a neurological issue, it is considered NOT medically needed.  Like the brain is not one of the most important parts of the body!  I don't get it.  But that is how they all look at it, if you have a problem with your heart not working correctly you go to the hospital and get it fixed, but if you have a problem with your brain not working correctly, they cant help.

As you can tell, I know the frustration that everyone is going through!!

Good luck to all!