Messages By: heropinion

i cannot  believe you wrote that let alone thought it. this whole subject just turns my stomach. how many women have given birth and raised children they werent ready for because a "MAN" said THEY WERE STERILE?  How many men are TRYING TO GET OUT OF PAYING CHILD SUPPORT? its so very fun to make them but none to care for them. And as for rights he has them its called signing a paper stateing he waves ALL PARENTAL RIGHTS. and viola all gone and he can go to his sick selfish ways again.  

If a man seriously does not want children, get fixed, use a condom. why is so much of it placed on us women, it is so much more invasive for women to take care of birth control. whats wrong with him that he cant wrap it up. women can suffer CANCER and STERALITY from birth controls. what does a man suffer? less feeling during sex. oh the poor man. GIVE ME A BREAK! 

alot of women cant get pregnant, or have a tough time getting pregnant, or are unsure if they can. if he doent want children then he MUST CONTROL HIS OWN REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS. IE.. condom. you hear all the time a woman has to have the control over her own body. time for men to have control over theirs. dont complain after that "oh poor me i have to pay child support over a child i dont want" get over it already and take care of your responsiabilities 

let me just say that men RARELY are involved. my gosh in todays world men  tend to have 10 babies by 8-9 different women and find NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. they dont pay support or might pay 20- 50 dollars a month. DO YOU THINK THAT WILL COVER DIAPERS? AT 20 DOLLARS A BAG.  

my brother in law had nothiing to do with his children the first 5 years of their lives. he might have paid 700 in suppot that entire time. yes she is responsiable for her children. but we give men too much of an out. too little responsiability. and see how the state of families are today because of it. if the responsiability is half why should SHE pay for the whole deal. emotionally, physically, mentally. financially. if he doesnt want children get fixed. CHILDREN ARE THE MAIN REASON FOR SEX. pleasure is secondary. i am 29 and have no children. BECAUSE I AM RESPONSIABILE. AS ALL PEOPLE SHOULD BE.