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May 8, 2008, 3:26 pm PDT

Yes, marriage is really over

Quote From: scottjohnson4

Follow your heart?  Do any of you actually believe in commitment?  Correct me if I'm wrong, but you all took a vow to remain faithful until death  I guess that's what is so scewed up with our culture and our kids today.  With over half of marriages ending in divorce and only 25% of kids living in a nuclear family, why would we expect to have functioning kids turning into adults!  Get real women,  it's not all about you and how you "feel"!  Die to yourself and be there for your husband and family and you will be amazed with the results, I promise!
What do you mean commitment?  I was in a committed marriage for twenty-five years and then found out that for 23 of it he had been in touch with an old summer flame?  I found out a whole bunch of stuff... added all together and I wasn't even married to the man I thought I was married to.  I felt robbed! I was committed to some nice guy, not a liar, a cheat and worse.   Oh, one of the lies... HE beat up my son, told my son to lie and say he'd been mugged on his way to school.  I had my son transferred to another school.  My son never told me the truth until after the divorce... probably 8 years later!  I was living a lie.. committed to a liar and fraud.
 

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