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November 29, 2006, 2:17 pm PST
Daugher torn up by Jealous and angered boyfriend needs advice
I have a beautiful young daughter who is 18 and has made some bad mistakes. She has gotten herself involved in a young hispanic male who she got pregant by. She now has a cute little 3month old baby girl. Her boyfriend has a anger problem and is very jealous over her. He torments her, all they do is fight to the point we have had to call police to make him stop. I hate to see her cry day after day with his guy. The last straw was one night he took the baby from her and said he was going to leave but he just went outside with the baby at 1am and walked around trying to make my daughter upset.. No DOUBT IT WORKED. Finally when we talked him to come in and he needed to leave he took a nail file and started cutting his arm. Needless to say the police was called again and they finally took him away. She is young, I think little scared of his crazyiest behavior. He needs anger control and He is so jealous of her he constantley thinks she is messing around on him. She works 20hr a week and keeps a baby.. she doesn't have time for a social life. She can't afford an atterney to file custody papers. I suggested try to see if legal Aid would help her. Any suggestions on how to make this work for her. I know he will have to be involved in the babys life for years to come. He is a good father when hes not angry. But he has issues and problems he can't deal with. Hiis family is from Mexico and seem nice althou they don't speak alot of english.
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