Messages By: betty389

When this woman decided at age 47 to become a mother, she did not consider the results.  She had no husband, She was too old to be having her first child.  She apparently did not think about what problems could occur  She was artifically conceived, and when she got sick there was no husband to help her thru this.  God created two parents for each child as a back up system.  Now that the twins are almost two years old and the hardest part of raising them is over,  She wants them back.  Claiming she was sick.  Well she had a good job and education.  If she needed help with the twins when she gave birth she could have hired a nanny,  or gotten her family to help out.  Instead she realized how difficult becoming a mother could be and she signed them away.  Claiming she was forced by some boyfriend who seems to have had nothing to do with the childrens birth.  There is no way she should get them back or even have visitation rights.  These children need two parents who will live long enough to raise them.  If you think i am wrong,  you need to know I have two adopted children and two natural children.  My last child was born at age 40.  However, i knew what i was getting in to,  I had a husband and excellent family support.    Not once in her interview from the prison did she say she cared what was best for the children.  She was only saying i am the mother so i deserve them.  Wrong. being a mother means doing what is best for the children.  She puts her self first.  It also seems she is not emotionally stable enough to raise the children.    to take them from the family who adopted them,  stayed up all night to care for them ,  paid all their bills, and loved them would be the biggest crime on the children now.    In addition Dr. Phil i think you should stay out of this matter and leave it to the legal system.  This mother would steal the children again if she was let out of prison for even one day.