Messages By: skgonzales

i feel for the parents of summer she might be 29 but i fully understand.  I just left my 26 year old daughter and the 9 year old grandson for the first time she does not know where i am or how to get in touch with me.  She also drinks and drugs and has not car, does not keep a job, ....but i have bailed her out of many problems and it was time for her to grow up.  I am not going into a lot of my life just i feel for u as parents and u have to let her grow up but pray for her and hold no angry.  At same time i do know what it is like to be a addict because i am in recovery myself and it is one day a time.   Thank you

i can understand the frustration but do not cut her off she is still a child of God just like we are childeren of our God.  And our God forgives us personal i beleive if God whated us born with tatoo's on our body we would be born with them.  That is what i told me kids if they wanted any it will be after they are 18 and there decission not mine.  But i had four out of four that got tatoo's one realy bad i did not want to be seen with him and do not tell me it does not change a persons emtions, and the family and the ones around them because it does.  But for the mother u can not change what she had done and pls do not cut her off God forgives us and we have done a lot wrong.  For the daughter i feel that u did this to get your  moms attention for some reason my kids did.  But i cuted my one daughter off because this is what my late husband whated and two years later she commited sucide.  I never had a change to tell her i love her and forgive her.

This does not surpise me but it does appear that the women and the boy was affaid of the father that they summitted to him.  We can not chance the past question is what are u going to do right now about your marriage?  As you can get help and fix it or you can let what happened torn it up and that is up to the both of you.  But with the father in the life there is no marriage and never was.  As for the guy about the children you do not know the turn out of there children or forsee the tomorrows i have worked and been in places worked with many things like this and there has been children from very good homes with no fighting, yellin, trouble, drinking, druging, anything and they end up in more trouble then you know.  I have also seen children come from bad homes no chance of a home and they turn out one of the best children you sir can not judge the children.  I can see u have not seen much in life and only the bad not the good.

     most of it was already said:  But it is not only the man on there that can lie to you the woman also abuses the mate. com by lieing on it.  Also not only can you pick up a man on the internet that might be a rapest, or abuse a child, but your own family like:  father, step parents, uncles, brothers, school teacher, or church teacher, even a police officer, the person living next door, your babysitter, ...is and could very much so be the abouser most the time that is the abuser and you go oh no not my dad or not my ....so you can not blame the internet for all of the things that goes wrong.   

     Enough thing your abuser pshyical and sexual al though people do not like to talk about it is the woman who is to say that the woman on the other end is not an abuser that you meet man...exspecal the man out there with children.  Also there is a web suite you can go to too check the person out it is free and gives you any crimmial history on the person. 

     I get people all the time trying to pick me up and i do not pay for a dating suite i get them off of the yahoo games that i play they want to know your aka and i get them on pogo games that i play all the time.  I at least get 20-50 people a month asking me if i will divorce my husband(who is in prison)and come marry them.   

     However I took off went to see one in Canada for two weeks and came back found out it was not going to work.  Do be careful and y are right i meet a lot of good friends praying friends when i need it.