Messages By: colt_66

Quote From: love2help

 Have you been on this message board before?  It's a wonderful board.  Allot more people come on during the day.  : )
I'm sorry for what you had to go through growing up.  I too was molested when little.  The pain will always be there no matter how much counseling we get.  You just need to learn how to deal with it in a healthier way.  Why is counseling not helping?  Maybe you should find another counselor.  Sometimes you have to search for the right counselor for yourself.  Someone you can trust and open up to.  Are you on meds?  Maybe that would help some too.
Don't give up ok?  You just need to do a little searching and find a good counslor.  That's the first step.   They can give you better advise than I could and help you find ways to heal from your past.
What do you do with your time?  Work? Hobbies? Children? I know for myself, keeping busy is the best way for me to deal with my depression. 
Keep chatting with us ok?  Nice to meet you!
Hugs,
Michele

Quote From: got_milk

HELP!  This is my first time here, but I am hoping some one can help.  I have been dating the same guy now for almost 6 years.  The problem is the way he was raised and how I was raised.  And between the 2 of us we have 3 kids at home.  He was raised VERY STRICK CATHOLIC and i was raised you do what, when you want, (grant it that way isn't right ).  But i turn out ok.  We were doing real well until about a year ago.  Now his dad wants to bud in.  Not only that I LOVE to volunteer at school PTO, reading in the library, helping needy kids with homework, go on feild trips, but when i do i get yelled at when i come home.  I want our relationship to work, but i am torn, do i sacrifice being in my kids life at school? so i am not alone, do i tell him off,  WHAT TO DO?  please help. 

Quote From: got_milk

HELP!  This is my first time here, but I am hoping some one can help.  I have been dating the same guy now for almost 6 years.  The problem is the way he was raised and how I was raised.  And between the 2 of us we have 3 kids at home.  He was raised VERY STRICK CATHOLIC and i was raised you do what, when you want, (grant it that way isn't right ).  But i turn out ok.  We were doing real well until about a year ago.  Now his dad wants to bud in.  Not only that I LOVE to volunteer at school PTO, reading in the library, helping needy kids with homework, go on feild trips, but when i do i get yelled at when i come home.  I want our relationship to work, but i am torn, do i sacrifice being in my kids life at school? so i am not alone, do i tell him off,  WHAT TO DO?  please help.