Messages By: becamadmom

 I along with 5 other siblings were abandoned by our mother in 1987. My mother went to a bar met some guy and ditched us at some strangers house where our father could not find us for almost six months. Because he had a photo of one of us with him it was placed on the milk cartons and while we were in school they noticed it was us and contacted the police and our dad.  I still am very angry at our mother for what she has done but I will never forget how much of a better person I am from it happening.  I believe she is well and in contact with one of my other sisters but I have expressed how much I never want that woman in my life and they have told her this and I believe she doesn't even regret how much she has hurt us/ME! I have three wonderful children and they ( if I have any thing to do about it)  will never have contact. I tell them I don't have a mother.

 I am scared that my niece is in a dangerous situation. I wassexually abused my my older sister before I was even 8yrs. and I know she had did the same to a younger sister and possibly 2 older than me .  I am scared that she might do something to her even though its been almost 20 yrs. and my niece is about 4yrs old now. As you can tell I am not in contact with her now that she moved but  I am still worried and scared.