Messages By: sweetsilk

ihave been with the same man for 5 years  all and all we have agood relation ship hes anice guy and has agreat since of humar, we have been engaged for ayear  anddgetting him to set a date is  difficult we was going to do it this year things came up cant afford it so we are not doing it  isuggested  lets do it on vacation he seems to still be thinking about it im not sure if hes scaried of marriage cus his parents didnt have the perfect marriage and two of his brothers had cheated several times on there wifes so im not sure what he is thinking i dont want to pressure him but i also dont want to just be his live in girl friend . so any body with good advice  would help.

hi iam going threw the same situation i have been dating the same guy for 5 years engadged for 1 year and getting him to set adate seems to be difficult more or less i think hes scared the best advice i cant give you is wait it out if the man is wonderful and he treats you good give him some time to think but also let him know that you love him but you are  not going to continue to be his live  in girlfriend that you want to be his wifeyou need to sit and talk withhim ask him how he fills about getting married if thats what he wants you dont want to pressure him into makeing a diccision that could make your sittuation worse or that you would brake up just sit down talk to him tell him how you fill and go from there.    bj