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May 26, 2006, 3:54 pm PDT
It doesn't have to be like that...
Quote From: bkoshyRule #1 Just about all men masturbate - would this be a problem for you if they did so in marriage/a relationship? - because they ALL do do it.
Rule #2: A LOT of men (a good proportion - i'd say maybe 80% do PORN) - is this a problem for you in marriage/relationship?
If these are going to be issues for you (as they are with a lot of women) good luck finding a man who does neither (they DON"T EXIST). Men will be men. THat's the way it is. I think this could be a big problem. If you have a problem with porn, he should respect that, by not looking at porn. I think the two of you should have a conversation about this. This will only get worse if you don't resolve the issue. My fiance and I have an agreement...He would not like it if I went to strip clubs and looked at porn, and vice-versa, so neither one of us do that. We respect eachother and would not want to hurt the other, so therefore, we just don't do that stuff. Masterbating does not have to entail pornography.
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