Messages By: nanastolp

These false confessions would be not be so easy for the police to obtain if more people were educated on what their rights are.

 

People don't realise that they do not have to answer the police questions if they do not care to.  First they should ask if they are being charged with a crime at that time.  If not, they can get up and leave right there and then. 

 

If they are being charged with a crime, they still have the right to have a lawyer present.  Once this request is made the interrogation should come to an end right there.

 

Now if the police do not stop the questioning right there, then the person being questioned, should not say another word except for requesting that they want to leave or want a lawyer present.  If they are put into a position like this, as soon as possible, they should let their lawyer know what took place. 

 

It's surprising how many people do not know there legal rights when it comes to police interrogations. 

 

Stay strong & don't let them trample on your rights!

I've read through all the messages on this & there is a common theme here...ENZA.  She is a bitter woman that seems to have nothing to occupy her, than to terrorize this family & keep the tension going.  I wonder if she gets some kind of satisfaction out of causing chaos & then pretending that she is the only one that can help.  I've seen her type before....My Step Father.  He would instigate huge fights between my Mother & Me.  We found out on accident from him telling my Grandma about a fight.  I'm not sure exactly how it happened, but my Grandma figured out that he was playing us one off the other.  He would sit back & watch when my Mother & I would stand toe to toe & nose to nose & yell & scream at each other.  After we discovered what he was doing, he no longer had the power over us to cause problems & my Mom & I had a great relationship after that.

 

I found it very interesting the comments that Enza was making while watching what Dr. Phil was saying to Kim.  It was so obvious that she was very tangled up in the whole mess.  It was also very interesting to hear her denials when Dr. Phil read what Alex wrote about Enza.  She could not admit to her part, & acted like there was no way that she did any of those things.  She acted like she was the only one right in the whole thing & that everyone else was wrong.  She needs help & now.  I think that while in the Dr. Phil's house, it will become very evident what that woman has done to sabotage the relationship with Kim & Alex.  As long as Enza is allowed to continue her game between Mother & Daughter I don't think the family could heal.  At first I couldn't understand why Dr. Phil would allow Enza to be part of this.  But it has become clear that she is so tangled up in the whole thing, that without her there, there can be no healing.  She needs to see what she has done.  And she needs to learn what her roll should be in the family dynamics.  If she cannot come to terms with what she has done, then she should have no acsess to either Alex or Kim.  I just hope that Enza does not cause further problems between Kim & Alex.

 

The moment that man said that he would probably go back to the other woman if things did not work out with his wife would be a deal breaker to me.  My God why would anyone want to stay with a man that has a back up woman?