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To Kara's mother:  For heaven's sake, quit trying to justify your pathetic behaviour.  If your family life is so perfect and if your daughter has no problem with what you're doing to do, then why even go on the show?? 

Parents like you just kill me.  You go to any lengths to give the impression that this whole thing is your daughter's idea and that you "only want what's best for her."  In reality, you want the glory of being a parent to a superstar, admit it.    I've known women like you all my life.  You remind me of Rose's mother in the movie Titanic.  She would go to extreme lengths to make sure that her daughter married a rich man, not that she cared about what her daughter wanted----it's what she, the mother wanted----glory and prestige.  And you're no different. 

I was absolutely shocked when I watched this program yesterday.  I knew, of course, that these girls had gone missing but when they started talking about what goes on in these sex-slave rings, and what they do in these "snuff" movies, I had to turn the channel.  I started to cry and I couldn't sleep last night thinking about it.  I had no idea that anyone could be this disgusting.  How can human beings do this sort of thing to one another? 

I give the gentlemen, who's helped rescue more than 30 Americans from this sort of fate, great credit and he should be given a medal of honor or something from the government.  It's a shame that George Bush hasn't invested even a tenth of the funds he's invested in war, into helping stop the sex-slave industry. 

My heart goes out to moth Natalee and Amy's mothers and their families and I pray that your daughter will be found alive.   

What planet are you from buddy?  What, are you suggesting that her parents had something to do with her disappearance?  You're pathetic.  You'd want a boycott on the country if it were YOUR daughter that went missing.  Those three boys should have NEVER been released.  They were the last to see her and they admitted to others that they had all had sex with her just before she disappeared.  They lied their faces off to the authorities.  The whole thing just reeks of corruption and a coverup. 

I for one will never set foot in Aruba because of this and I hope many other Americans and non-Americans do the same thing.  When the island starts to hurt over lack of tourism, then perhaps the powers that be there will actually get off their butts and DO something about this case. 

You've got that right!  I'm a Canadian and I will NOT be travelling to Aruba after seeing this on Dr. Phil yesterday. 

Oh man, that guy with the rap sheet a mile long was pretty darn scary........he claims he's a "changed man"?  Ya, and I'm the Easter Bunny.  He's crazy and I wouldn't let him within a mile of any children.  He was just barely keeping control on the show and you got to figure if he's struggling that hard not to flip out on the show with millions of people watching, what's he like when the TV cameras stop rolling? 

He looks like he's capable of just about anything.  While I'm all for giving people a second chance, you've got to show that you've changed.  This guy is angry, definant and ready to flip. 

I really think that these child pagents should be banned----completely.  These parents, like Bonnie, love to give the appearance that it's the child that really wants to be in these pagents when we all know that it's the MOTHERS that are pushing them to do this.  Bonnie said that if her daughter told her tomorrow that she didn't want to do the pagents any more, then "we would stop."  Bullcrap.  You said on the show that you've "invested ALOT of time and money in these pagents" and that you expect her to act accordingly while on stage because you "don't think that's too much to ask."  So Bonnie, if you're getting upset because your daughter isn't behaving the way you think she should before she goes on stage, do you actually think that anyone believes that you wouldn't be furious and angry with your daughter if she wanted to quit? 

I was shocked when I saw pictures of your daughter and your excuses were the same pathetic ones that Patsy Ramsey would mouth when people openly questioned her about dressing her daughter like a prostitute.  Patsy Ramsey said "....it's only a few highlights in her hair" or "..it's only a little bit of mascara."  You sound the exact same way.  Your daughter looks like a prostitute thanks to you.    The fact that your sister and your mother both are disgusted with the way she looks speaks volumes and it's something you should listen to. 

When my daughter was 5 years old, we were approached one day by an agent wanting me to consider entering her in a beauty pagent.   Because of her extraordinary prettiness (long blonde hair and large blue-violet eyes) he thought she'd be a winner.  I'm sure he tells everyone that.  I refused his offer because I do not want to subject my daughter to heavy make up, sleazy clothes, fake tans and false teeth before the age of 6.   I wanted her to be a NORMAL little girl who gets scrapes and cuts and bruises.  I don't want her to think that her looks counts for more than personality.  Teaching her to help others, being kind and charitable count far more than looks. 

You need to re-think your position.  Quit pretending that this is something your daughter wants-----it's YOU who wants this and it is extremely selfish of you.  

Oh pu-lease, who are you trying to kid??  Motorcycle racers are ADULTS!!  Would you let a 5 year old get behind the wheel of a monster truck or motorcycle?  No??  Gee why not??  Maybe because they're for ADULTS??  Here's a clue:  heavy make-up, false teeth, wigs, flashy sleezy clothes are for ADULTS----not children. 

This is NOT "just a hobby" so don't give me that crap.  Its a sick obsession by the mothers who are trying to live their lives through their daughters and they don't care what it does to them. 

I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that Dr. Phil has never had a beotch for a mother-in-law.  I love Dr. Phil, but I do not agree with the way he kept putting some of the oneous on the daughter in law.  This is NOT the DIL's fault. 

Dr. Phil, there are some women in this world that are evil, evil, evil and this woman is one of them.  She has a sick obsession with controlling her "little boy" and views any woman who "comes between them" as competition.  In other words, she's viewing her son as a mate instead of a son. 

I watched her sitting there, smirking on the show and I felt like slapping her.  And of course, everyone else is a liar except for her.  Yeah, right.  I wonder if the old bitty knows how pathetic she looked on national TV.  If she's reading this, I would really like to say that NO ONE believes you and you're really a disgrace to the human race. 

If I were the DIL or the son, I would report her to the police every single time you see her sitting out front of your house.  Carry a video tape with you if you have to; bring charges against her.  This woman should be locked up from decent society.  People like her just make me sick.