Messages By: chedmat

  What gets me is that she doesn't see that what she is doing is so harmful to the kids.One problem with taking drugs for mental illness is that you can stop any time you feel like it with no recourse.It is scary that she is allowed to drive a car if she gets into such a rage that she sees red.That puts everybody in her car and around her in jeprody.
  When I watched the show the thought that came to my mind was she had better not sleep to soundly.
  It was mentioned that foster parents could not love a child as waell as a natural parent,that is bull.
 My wife and I are foster parent to three native children 3,6,and eight years old.We have had them for
two years but before they came to us they were in at least ten placements.The eldest was in SK and had been in ten schools already.We have them in skating, bowling bike riding and golfing.The point is that parents have to do things with the children that promotes learning and good memories.Natural or foster.

  If Karas mom and dad don't smarten up they will lose their daughter plain and simple.The thing they seem to miss is that it should be a pleasant experience for the child,not an inquizition about what was done wrong etc.
  Let her sing to her hearts content but stop the next big thing talk as that puts unneeded pressure on her to perform beyond her capabilities.She will have four years of high school where she can sing in assembies and dances,maybe front a band, the possibilities are endless.
  I realize that there was not much time to show a true picture in an hour program but what was shown was not pretty or even nice.I felt sorry for Kara as her mother never had anything good to say about her performance.Imagaine the silent treatment for not doing what her mother thought she should do.
 

  I watched the show today and really feel sorry for the poor women that were cheated out of money and emotions.But the thing is even if caught the offender doesn't do enough time to make it a deterent.
  Unfortunately most women that fall prey to a con are lonely and depressed therefore easy prey.It is too easy to tell them not to give up control of their money to anybody,no matter how much of a sob story they give.Nine times out of ten they will not believe they have been conned even with proof and if they have married the jerk it is too late already because by that time he is ready to go after his next victim after depleting the bank account.

  The day I changed my e-mail to Yahoo I started recieving notices that I have won the British lottery(at least  25 times, I am benificiary for untold millions from many dead relatives I didn't know I had. The only stipulation is that I be honest and share the booty 50/50 or 40/60 depending on the bank worker.

  I had my bank account cancelled when I brought a cheque in to them to see if it was real.I asked them to

verify the cheque,that I would not do anything until they had oked the cheque but because it was fraud my account was cancelled.

   Another scam not mentioned is the collect money for my company and tras ship 90% to head quarters

or where ever else they say, usually Nigeria.The big problem is the money order or gram are very good fakes. The first ones I recieved were from Wal-Mart .I went to the local store to have them looked at and they told me they were very good quality fakes but the missed on three different places.The next ones I recieved were postal money orders which I brought to the post office and of course they were fake.

  I have kept all the e-mails in a folder and have them available if they would help the authorities.

  By the way the lotteries all use the hook of having to have the money sent by courier at a cost of 500 to 600  british pound sterling that has to be paid first. I was told how can you be broke your over 50,and I said it's not hard on a pension.