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August 2, 2006, 2:46 pm PDT

Just want to give her a hug.

I have to agree with other posts about these parents not knowing how to love this child. I have a teen who is so much like Shannon. These kids act out in order to get attention, whether good or bad. I just wish I could give her a hug. She needs your help Dr. Phil, please help her to get away from that family situation!

 

 

 
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October 29, 2006, 5:48 am PST

Who to believe?

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Dr Phil, I just wanted to say Thank you so much for bringing this little girl's mother on your show. When our own court system seems to have failed this precious child you did not. I  just wanted you to know that I appreciate what you are doing, by bringing them on your show. So far you are the only one who has shown even a little bit of concern, besides Kaylee's family. I don't really know what to say right now. I just wanted to tell you, you seem to be a great guy, and thank you for at least bringing the parents on the show. I hope this all is settled soon, for Kaylee's sake. God Bless You!!!!
This is such a scary story. Which parent are we to believe is telling the truth? It is so, so , so sad that this little girl has to go through anything like this. I pray that God will protect her and the outcome will be in the best interest of this child.
 
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November 6, 2006, 3:35 pm PST

Dr. Phil...PLEASE READ THIS POST!

Dear Dr. Phil,

I don't know if you or anyone else caught this part. But my husband and I caught it and were very concerned about what this little girl said. She said "THEY touched my pee pee" and then she told the camera person. "tell "THEM" not to do that anymore" If the father is guilty, is there also another person doing this with him? Please for the sake of that little girl, look into our concern about her saying "they" instead of always "he"

 

 

 
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November 6, 2006, 3:59 pm PST

HE or THEY

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THERE ARE OTHERS INVOLVED HERE. SHE SAID THEY MORE THAN ONCE SHE ALSO SAID TELL THEM TO STOP DOING THAT I SMELL SOMETHING STRANGE IN THIS CASE
I just posted with the same concerns about the child saying "they" and "them". I hope Dr. Phil looks into this so that if there is someone else they can be stopped.
 
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March 18, 2007, 9:15 pm PDT

more important things in life

My SIL and I used to be best friends, she even was my maid of honor at my wedding. Then things went bad.... very bad.  I was to the point that whenever I thought of her, I would get so upset that I would start shaking. If I saw her in person I would get sick to my stomach. I have now learned that I have to let my bad feelings go. Dr. Phil was right, when someone can make a person that upset like she used to make me, then they "own" you. There are so many more important things in life. I can't let her control how I feel and I have to get on with my life. My niece and nephew mean so much to me and I want to see them grow up with my children. Family is very important and we are only here on earth for a very short time. Sometimes we have to swallow our pride and just "get over it". 
 
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May 10, 2008, 10:36 am PDT

takes "two"

In all fights/arguments it takes two. All sides are to blame, not just the SIL. I am in a family relationship where all my in-laws are here where I live and my own family is in Montana. My SIL does not like me and it creates a large strain on the whole family. I am ready to move on and let our differences be in the past. But she refuses to forgive and forget. So again it's takes both sides to make things work out. One can't just blame this SIL for all the family problems.


 
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May 10, 2008, 6:26 pm PDT

civil?

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I agree it does take 2 to have an argument. But, because I have a SIL like the one on the show, I know sometimes ONE family member can cause a lot of trouble. The family knows how she is, and they pretty much ignore her when she starts talking about another family member. I have known her for 35 years and she is always trying to start something. I am civil to her and have always kept my distance and I have always refused to join in her gossip about other family members. And it's more than gossip, it sometimes amounts to slander. But, since we all know how she operates, we pretty much ignore her. She goes from one family member to another with gossip, gossip, gossip. She's like a pile of s***, don't stir her up she will stink worse. So, the family members avoid stirring. It's better that way.

You state that you are civil to your SIL but then you say something as crass as comparing her to a pile of s***
Is that civil?
 
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November 29, 2008, 7:40 pm PST

Help?

I have been trying to read through the boards to find out what happened in the end of this 3 part show. Am I missing the  page or  write up somewhere on this site?  Can anybody tell me what happened in the end with the little girl and if she is safe now?

Thank you in advance,
tobin1
 

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