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September 13, 2006, 2:02 pm PDT

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Exactly what I am thinking? When are these people going to grow up and become accountable?

IMO, if you don't care about the persons spouse, care about the children that will have broken homes because of lack of morals and judgement

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September 13, 2006, 2:09 pm PDT

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I totally agree, I'm still terrified that some stranger will snatch up my son and I'll never see him again. So far all I have is the three year old, but OMG has he given me some heart attacks. And like you, if my kid acts up he loses things at home. For the most part though, he's like your other two, and pretty well behaved when we're out in public. And for that I am grateful.

I know their are too many weirdos out there. and I am just not willing to risk losing a child to one of them.

gotta be greatful for the ones that behave. I do feel bad knowing how hard it is to take my son out. especially when I know he can't help it. But it is not fair to him to put him threw that nor myself or anyone else around us.

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September 13, 2006, 2:22 pm PDT

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i am sorry to hear what happened to you. but i would just like to say that u are calling this women a souless tramp and that is not fair. what is your husband for leaving his wife and the mother of his children. i have been the other women and we are regular women just like you i have a child that i get up and take care of everyday. and we are victims as well we fall in love with men that are not 100% ours we get lied to as well we get our hearts broken just like everyone else and it hurts just the same. people always want to blame the other woman well for once stop and think when i met the man i fell in love he did not tell me he was married. these men are great liars and manipulators. so maybe you take the time to think about that remember there is always three sides to every story yours, theirs,a nd the truth

ha souless tramp is pretty nice to what i would be saying! when these women find out these men are married do they leave? the man also gets some choice names believe me. one day it will all come back to haunt you and you will the one who has a man with a mistress than you may think different. there is no excuse ever for "falling in love" with a married man. if you do not know they are married than get out and leave, in the end you are gonna get your heart broken as well.

so being a parent, what morals and values are you gonna teach your child? that you fell in love with him and he lied to you so that makes it all ok?

Don't get me wrong the man shoudl not be so easily forgiven but their are couples who shoose to work it out and if they can that is great!

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September 13, 2006, 2:24 pm PDT

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recently a single woman moved into the neighborhood . i've never seen her outside myself but my husband has had conversations with her at least a half dozen times. she is always conveniently outside when my husband is. he says he talks to everyone and is just being friendly. i say she is making herself too available to him to be friendly. i confronted him about it and he knows how i feel. he swears he's never been unfaithful and is not interested in anyone else but i am listening to my inner voice that says something isn't right. he also had an infatuation with a young girl at work that i had to put a stop to. he actually invited her to lunch with the both of us so i could meet her. at a party we both attended he couldn't keep his eyes off of her. i finally blew up and told him enough was enough.

I had a friend who decided she needed my spouse to come do little things for her, well it made me very uncomfortable. I knew his intentions were good because he is a moral man and i love him for that. but i did not trust her so much. i means he would have him come to do things liek hook up the VCR! come on................. that doesn't take a brain scientist to do! so it had a stop put to it and quick!

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September 13, 2006, 2:25 pm PDT

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Who appointed you to judge other people's moral worth? You're so certain that there's no excuse. Jesus said judge not lest you be judged, but you, apparently, know better. I don't know if this situation is bad enough to make infidelity understanding and neither do you. Why don't you try a little understanding before you just jump in with arrogant criticism. You don't know what someone else's life is like unless you've walked in their shoes. Until then, try to conjure up some kindness in your heart for people with grief that you've been luckily spared.

the bible also says "thou shall not covet thy neighbors spouse"

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September 13, 2006, 3:09 pm PDT

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Yes I agree with you....two wrongs do not make a right. Your Grandmother is a very wise woman. Seems purcee13 feels that since her husband cheated on her.....it was okay to seek revenge and cheat herself to get even, boy I bet that showed him!

i did not knwo so many people thought sex was just soemthing you should up and give away cause you are mad at someone! Guess my parents raised me wrong and taught me the wrong morals and vlaues! I better tell them that they really screwed me up as an adult.

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September 13, 2006, 9:01 pm PDT

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If you son was in a wheelchair or was blind these same people would be holding doors open for you. They are the ones with a problem for only being able recognize "visible" disabiliies. After all we are talking about Target not a five star restaurant

yeah exactly! when did target become a non child friendly store? LOL some people are just ignorant and have no idea what is going on in that persons situation so therefore they should mind their business.

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September 13, 2006, 9:13 pm PDT

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my kudos to you dear! i spent many many years having my son tested for adhd and any other lettered name for behavior problems, not because I wanted to - but because every single teacher he had would sit down and tell me "I think your son would benefit greatly from medication." While I agree that there are many out there that would, and IF he had tested positive for anything, I was not adverse to it - but that "R" word was just used to often for my liking. Considering where I worked, I was lucky enough to have some of the best pediatric and behavioral doctors help me out. ODD is fairly new, and no, there is no specific medication as of yet. My son is 14 and the greatest challenge I have ever had. He would often talk to me and tell me he doesn't know why he does the things he does. at the moment he lives with his father, but I'll tell you ODD is a full time job! I know every teacher, pricipal and guidance counselor of every school he ever attended. good luck to you

i hear that! about ODD being a full time job!

I do not like when schools and teachers feel they have the qualifications to diagnose these things. i spent last year being called all the time askiing if his meds could be upped and when does he see his pdoc again! i was out of patience! not only that but once they label the kids that is it for them. i was finally at the point where i said the kid is taking 13 freaking pills day, how much more do you think his 60lb body can take!

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September 13, 2006, 9:52 pm PDT

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Quote From: lyneck

She wasn't MY Friend, She was HIS. Plus I never said that ALL women are to be distrusted. But believe me my 6th since sure works overtime.

myself? i have a real hard time trusting other women. I guess i myself know how women think and well have reservations about intentions they may have. i have NEVER cheated or been the other woman but for some reason i don't trust women.

i have a family member who thought it was alright to walk up to my BF and grab him by the privates everytime my back was turned. which really bothered him because well he was raised with morals and values. after 8 years he has finally told me, but to say i stood my ground and we had a major blowout after is an understatement. we used to be very close until that. some things are just inappropriate and well that is one of them. it has reallyt strained the whole family to a point. that is the sad part but i was not int he wrong there and i do not take any fault for that

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September 13, 2006, 9:53 pm PDT

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Quote From: latenightjam

See my post at "In a Better Place Now". But she was not the manipulator, she was just dumb. She was my best friend of over 30 years. He was the scoundrel, but for someone who professed to be such a good, churchgoing Christian she sure does not live what she professes.

Best wishes to you, and I know you are a stronger and better person than he or she deserve. What is wrong with these people??

perhaps they were dropped on their heads as infants and they lost the sense of morals and values? dunno, just a thought though

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