Messages By: tonyfan

I have 3 children - now 22, 20 and 16 and never once did I leave them unattended in a car. 

What has a snow storm got to do with leaving your child, that you chose to bring into this world, in a car by themselves.

You chose to have the children, so "running around with a baby and a toddler " is something you should have been used to doing.

Do not play God with your childrens lives - never leave them in a car.

I dont think this mother was falsely accused.

And after watching her on the show today, I feel she got what she deserved.

She was sitting there so high and mighty like she did nothing wrong - but she did.

She left her child alone in a car - parked in what appeared to be a no parking zone from the video - while watching her other children go and drop money in a kettle.

Anything could have happened even though she was standing only 30 feet away - and I have absolutely no sympathy for her!

Her car could have been rammed from the back or the side and burst into flames and what could she have done - absolutely nothing.  No car seat could have done anything for that little innocent child.

She should have waited until her husband was home and then driven her 2 other children - parked in a proper spot and took them to the kettle.

WOW, YOU DEFINETELY HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD WITH BOTH YOUR RESPONSES.

Way to go!  

Both couples got themselves into the mess they are in - now get themselves out by GETTING A JOB!

I MOST DEFINETELY HAVE BEEN IN THEIR SITUATION.

Even when I had one in school all day, I had my other 2 kids with me.

And if I needed to go to a store with them, both my kids were taken out of the car and with me.

When my middle child started Kindergarten, the parking lot was right at the school door - and I always took my youngest out of the car seat - even in snow and sleet - and had them with me.

My children mean the world to me and there is no way I would have put any of them in danger by leaving them in the car.

And for you to judge me, when you were not in my shoes, is sad!!

I agree with you 100%!!!!!

I totally agree with you on this.

Dr. Phil really blew it with the tape measure on stage.  Like you state the same conditions were not replicated in this scene on the stage and I felt, as did you, that Dr. Phil was catering to this woman.

I am also surprised at the husband filming the scene when he arrived instead of dealing with his children and his wife.  Makes me wonder!!!!

I saw the same thing on the video that the Kettle was way more than 30 feet as she states - this woman was trying everything to look good on TV instead of owning up to what she did.  Her holier than thou attitude really sucked and Dr. Phil was not much better and I did write him to tell him that.

Your comments are totally ridiculous!

Yes we all know that a child can choke anywhere, anytime no we dont have to accompany our children to school.

The letter write that you responded to had great points and that no child should be left alone in a car.  It only takes a second for an accident to occur (cars being driven forward instead of reversing) and that child would have been killed and the mother could not have done anything - even from her so called 30 feet away.  And looking at the video again she was way more than 30 feet from her car.

Guaranteed if something had happend and the child injured or worse, the cops who she has totally put down, would have been the first people she would have been crying to.

To bad you did not get any common sense!

I totally agree with you.

I don't know how any grandparent, or any individual for that matter, could have this girl living in their home for the past 3 weeks and not grill her for information on where their grandbaby is!

This is their grandchild that is missing and was missing for over a month before the mother reported her, what a terrible, terrible shame.

This poor little girl is most probably dead at the hands of her mother and the grandparents, in my opinion, are just as much to blame for not dealing with their daughter to find out her whereabouts, so that this little girl can have a proper farewell from people that love her.

If, from what I have heard, the grandparents saw Caylee almost everyday, why did they not report something earlier when they did not see her.

I know for a fact, that if my parents did not see any of their grandbabies for over a month, they would definetely be finding out what the problem was.

Lets all band together for little Caylee, find her and bring her home, even if it is for a farewell!

I totally agree with you!

I am in the midst of watching this and I cannot see the punches that would constitute her saying she was beat up.

And she does have a great recollection of exactly what she said to the officers and what they said to her and yet she states she cannot write anymore as she has brain damage?  And she keept stating that she did not know she was getting beat up?  Come on - if someone was beating me up, I would know it.

I dont think she is telling Dr. Phil everything and that she must have said something that made them suspicious and why they reacted the way they did.

Another person out wanting money!!!

You are so right on here.

This story should have waited until the security people had a chance to speak and give their side of the story.

This women is not as innocent as she is making herself out to be and $10 milliion dollars is absolutely ridiculous - I hope that she does not get it.

Shame on your Dr. Phil for not letting both sides speak.