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November 7, 2008, 5:46 pm PST

11/07 Child Abandonment

Quote From: jojo8831977

I feel bad for these kids that are going through this, but if they would just stop having sex at such young ages they wouldn't be going through any of this. If they would just ask themselves before having sex if I have sex am I capable to handle the consequences if the answer is no then don't keep repeating the actions. I have been with my husband for 16 years and married for 9 years. I am 31 and have been trying to concieve for the last 9 years and it tears me apart to hear young people having kids left and right saying this and all they do is repeat the same actions, when people like me try everything and nothing.

I feel so sorry for you - and totally agree with you.

If they only realized the results of their actions beforehand maybe they would not get in the position of a pregnancy.

I hope and pray a miracle comes for you in the form of a child who, from your letter, would be loved more than anything in this world.

God bless you!
 
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November 7, 2008, 5:52 pm PST

WOW!

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Im so sick of hearing all this young girls say that there is no option or that there was or is no other option...there is always an option..and if you are not ready to be a mother dont have sex....! if you are going to act like an adult deal with the consequences..! I am 18 and pregnant and love my child with all my heart and i dont even know them yet..!

You are going to be a wonderfu mother, what a statement!

I agree with you 100%!

If they act like an adult and have sex then guess what - there is a really good chance that you will get pregnant - act like an adult and deal with what YOU created.

I wish you all the happiness in the world with your little one!
 
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November 7, 2008, 6:33 pm PST

11/07 Child Abandonment

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I was a single mom of 3, and I am extremely PROUD of those 3 adults today, and I have 6 grandchildren
that is the light of my life. Yes, I worked 3 jobs, learned how to live on 4 hrs. sleep per night. Yes, it was the hardest job I ever could imagine, but they had a father that could have cared less, so I made very sure they knew that they were loved & first and foremost in my life. NEVER, EVER could I have EVER given up on any of my children. They did not ask to come into this life, and I struggled everyday, but
worth every difficult moment. I had nothing given to me, I rec'd nothing from their father. I was mother, father & the only provider of my children. I took jobs at night after they were in bed. Whatever job I had was with them in mind, on how much time I could spend with them. Yes, it was a sacifice, and I had no life for me, but the BLESSING of my children out weighed any sacifice that I had to make. These children often end up with problems of abandoment that they never outgrow.  Children don't care about  anything except to be loved. Love is all they need. To feed them, cloth them, there is always help.  Nothing is MORE IMPORTANT than loving and giving your children WORTH and VALUE.  Money can always be made. I did it on $1.42 an hr. But, I made it. And, anyone out there can make it work. Kids, need balance assurance that they are loved. Material stuff is insignifant. I am tired of people not wanting to take responsibility, and sholve it off on someone else to do, so that they can come back years later to reclaim their children.  My children are so close to me today, they love their dad but they aren't close. Stop thinking that you have to give stuff to them that means nothing. And the reason we have problem children today, is you don't give them responsibility or make them accountable for anything they do. That's why we have a society that has no conscience. Don't do something that you can't go back and do over.
YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION!!!!!!!!!!
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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December 5, 2008, 7:11 pm PST

Parents have a responsibility too!

I watched today's show and I do have sympathy for the little girl that was put in time out for hours.

BUT< I dont lay all the blame on the teachers.

I understand she is autistic, but did no one else see her punching and kicking the teachers?
Climbing on the desk and yelling?

I saw the teachers making her go back in the room without use of force.

Again I feel that some parents find anything they can to go after teachers and MONEY!
 
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