Messages By: gingerlb

I have always believed you to be top notch but now im not so sure..how could you let these innocent lil people go home with that woman..especially with him as the supervisor...he kicked them for frig sakes ( where is the logic in that i kick garbage out of my path with no thought he kicks kids) ..have you lost your friggin mind ...dont tell me he is any better than her and the fact that he is not home as much is the only thing keeping him from wigging out just as bad...she should have been getting help before she got them back I lived through that crap and i cried on the first bat in the head he took ...she is not anything but a punk and if i had the chance to tell her so i would ...i spank but i dont wack my kids anywhere i can catch some bare skin ...I tell them what they are doing is dangerous or destructive then i let them know that if it contiinues or happens again i will spank ...then i think it through and my daughter gets swat on a clothed behind only...i was beat on... dont even try to use that excuse... if anything everytime you see that terrified look you should melt and cry with them not hit harder.

 seriously my door is open dr phil get your jet fuel and fly them in

and i wish those women would come id give my addy if i thought they would post it ..im not 10 im 27 and id have great fun taking brandons place....to say she dosnt know what shes doing is a stupid thing to say ..she knows what shes doing she is an intimidator  and i wont lie i see myself reaching out and grabbing my 4 yr old and shaking the CRAP>>out of her but then i take a second to think about my next move and i go from there ..I spank damn right i do ..but there is a major diffrence between giving a kid choices and explaing what will happen if she chooses to do something dangerous destructive or plain bad...and if you take clothes off to hit or you hit hard enough to leave a mark you are beating ...and let me be a sook and take my personal pain out ..i was beat kicked cussed out called names and yes i do feel that rage toward my child but im an adult and i dont throw tantrums and flip out on her ...I'm a mom not my mom so dont give me this shes trying to change stuff...shes trying to get sympathy and attention and now when she flips out people will give her chances and pat her on the back for trying to change .HAAAAA I laugh at your attempt to sooth her pain so if you have kids and you lose control go to a therapist on your own and get help dont go on national tv and show the world how its done so the kids can go to school and be picked on even more by bullies who wanna laugh at him for crying on the phil show when his mommy beat him up

i think most of us are venting at her from what we hold inside..its hard to be a victim of abuse and not want to take a child from an abuser unless its been done to you you cant understand the way those kids feel its pretty much like your person as a whole is chipped away ...and time will never heal it only make it easier to deal with ...and yes she does get credit for going to phil i'll give her that but why would you ask for help then go all wacko on cam over something so silly bullies like attention in any form negative is better than none ...thats the way i feel ..she wanted to be noticed maybe shes slipped behind the scenes as a stay at home mom ...its hard to lose your freedom to your children and husband I understand that ..I also can see how one might  take it out on the kids  ..her vent is abusive behaviour ,,,but ither way from her reactions to those questions i dont think she wants help so much as the public to see her cry and to pitty her...i hope the drs and social workers can turn this around ..but i dunno!

 Excuse to lay around and hide from my life..If I had to guess ..that says it all...I think if I lose weight ...I'll have no excuse- not to get dressed up and get out there in the world ...I am lazzzzzzy and I have low self esteem ...I fear failure big time ..I mean seriously if I really try to lose weight and I cant then I fail ..but if i give it a half hearted go and- I give up then I dont fail - I quit ..make any sense to anybody....

See how things work out...who knows what may have happened to you had your mom kept you ..perhaps god spoke to her that day ..cause to drop you off at a police station or anyother place may have brought you to a different set of foster procedures and diff parents ..right or wrong ..it was a choice she made and seeing her on the show her mind is no where near sane so she did make a fair choice in where she left you knowing a public place would get you noticed ...with all that said ..Your story will bring a ray of light to many peoples day..and to now have a sister in your life that must be a wonderful thing...I wish I could find out who and where my father is ..I dont know if I have bros or sisters or nieces and nephews ..its a sad feeling to have no idea where to start...I dont even know if thge story I have been fed is real ...Can I use your message board to try   Hey Donald Rose who would have been in Nova Scotia Canada in 1978..If your really out there ..I'm right here and you have 2 grand daughters..aged 4 and 1 ....we would love to meet you know matter how your living or who you are ...Its really hard to look in the mirror knowing I look like you... whatever it is you look like

    I really dont eat enough and what I do eat is never at the proper times ...im thinkin one of my many pay offs is time with my husband ...the only thing we ever do together is eat ...and our time out of the house is spent at take out places or bbq's out in my yard ...so my pay off is his attention ..he keeps telling me he likes me like i am ....would he love me skinnier????

I am 27 years old and have been with my husban since i was 13 years old ...he has never seen me in a bathing suit ..and only in the first few years did i wear shorts in the summer...I have such an issue with my weight even though i see people who are much ( ihat e to be rude and god knows i am trying to use a serious but not mean word) who r much flabbier i guess than me ...but they have a confidence about them ..they seem to be comfortable with who they are ...I am around 175-180 lbs and im only 5 foot notta...and im big chested so i feel like im just tooo round ir wide from front to back to even consider not being in jeans and baggy shirts when in public..if I ever put on a bathing suit i wear a knee length shirt over it ...I wish i could get past my body shape so i could wear cooler clothes and exercise ...also heres a ? my whole family is diabetic from my grand parents to my mom aunts uncles etc(one aunt died from not taking her meds and my grampy before death had his leg cut off ) ...they have it quite bad and have skin problems like cracks in their feet and blisters under their arms...also they all look 9 mths pregnant all the time we call it the miller belly...my doctor says im not diabetic but im scared to death that i am and or will be soon if i dont slim down ...wanna help a girl out lol   rally for me message dr phil and say help this girl lose weight ..have the people on here done that for anyone before and belive me ill write him everyday 6 times a day for you if you need help someday....Please keep in mind I have 2 lil girls aged 4 and 1 and had c sections for both ..my belly is still messed up after the second one and I went through a bothed epideral with my first and i think my back is a bit still from that i get the odd pincihing sensation if i turn wrong....so I really need to get help and learn how to do a proper work out and eat the proper foods I dont want to lose my leg or die young and leave them girls to grow up alone...I wanna be able to teach them how to eat right so they dont inherit the miller belly ....PLEASE PEOPLE >>>PLEASE..my email is glm21779@hotmail.com if any of you want to bug the heck out of dr phil and his staff to get me in this summer challenge he is holding  (hugs) :)

You go girl ...I am starting again lol ...i have lost and gained with my babies ..but i bought an exersice bike got it put t ogether last night and i am feeling ready ...i hope to get in on this weight loss challenge but if i dont I hope to make some friends to support and be supported ...Your gonna do great ..   

It is sad but true ..even if its just saying it internally about yourself...I do it all the time with out thinking...  most times it is to myself..My worst habit towards others would have to be.. if seeing guys that are just not attractive to me I'll say to my friend can you imagine waking up to that in the morning .. when I catch myself I feel bad but thats a little to late ..I worry about people staring at my girls thinking they are not clean enough or cute enough or dressed nice ...I totally do ..but I would never tell them that ..thats the thing the people on this show did that was bad ..they voiced in public what all people try to hide ..the fact is they feel this way and it's a natural reaction to societys mind numbing advertising campaigns...I am in no way making an excuse for mothers treating their children bad and breaking their spirit THAT IS JUST STUPIDITY AND IT IS A REFLECTION OF THEIR INSECURE SELF.....OH AND DR PHIL CAN YOU PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME- WHAT EXACTLY ARE THE FEATURES OF PERVERSION SO I KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR>>>CAN NEVER BE TO CAREFUL WITH THE PERVERTED LOOKING PEOPLE (*WINK*)