I married a much older man and although my family were not happy about it, i have no regrets. i think all people fall in love for different reasons, if it is really love you will fight for what you want. if it is not love and the arguements from the people who love you make sense perhaps a delay should be made. but if it feels right why not just jump right in. sure sometimes it is the wrong decision but life is about the lessons that we learn, the mistakes that we make and how we deal with our own screw ups.
i love my husband, he is sure enough about himself to let me be myself, i still have my identity, we do a lot of things together and we have seperate interests, i love him but i dont own him, we are two halves of one, but we are still people. some times when your young you meet some one you fall in love and you lose yourself, you become one without thought or opinion of your own, true love means you are still you but with a loving support network behind you, you can like different things, have different friends but still be completely in love at the same time.
