I have a 5 month old baby boy how I love very much. I have been married for 3 yrs in dec to a very wonderful woman that love very much I would dead for both of them before I let anything hurt them. My wife and I both work full time and still only have our son in daycare for less them 20hrs a week. most of the week I take carre of him, he gose with me to the gym and all the other places I go he gose too, now what bother me is that if my wife were to do this she would be prased as a grate mom, how grate it is that she get to spend all this time with her child, but when it come to me and all the other men how are men that take half of being a parent just as seriously as there wife do it seem like are looked down upon becasue they are not working them self in to a early grave to get money for there family but not spending time with there family and letting the woman do all that work well I think that is full load of crap. I dont know how to change this but it must be change becasue let face it Dad are indeed parents too. It seens the olny time Dad are pay attention to by the world is if they are dead beat dad, or a sperm donior that just leave the mom to rese the child with no help from them and to all the single mom out there that fall in to this as a man I am sorry that the jerk did that to you. I love spending time with my son see him grow that is grate I understand what i am watching I will never see again. I dont want to seem anything, and you know I like my job I dont want to clim the latter I just want to rase my son and spend time with my wife, but you know if I were to quit my job and be a stay at home Dad of a child that dose not have health issue to the parents of children like that I must say wow grate job it is truly a thankless job. anyway if i were to be a stay at home dad of a healthy child I would be looked down up on becasue were is the mom that is her job, dad dont make good care give why is he not at work the dum, or if not that it oh isnt that nice daddy is taking the kid today so that mom can have time to herself I dont like that at all. I dont get it why do mom get the credit they should get for being mommy and rasing there children, but daddy dont unless they are just the bread winner I dont get it, after all the daddy are more then just a check and a sperm donior. I dont get it it no wornder so men think it ok to leave, everyone need to feel prised and wil go were they must go to get it. Mom and Dad are looked at in diffrent light and mom that work are called working mom, but dad that work and are the main care giver to ther child are as were the mom and that must change.
