Messages By: swissmickey

 

 How dare that pair of "GRANDPARENTS" even get the outlandish idea that there EVER will be a way to "re-establish" any kind of relationship within that family!!!!!!!! 

 

GRANDPARENTS are supposed to be that ..GRAND-PARENTS, you know the kind of older wiser loving people you can ALWAYS count on to have an EXTRA SAFE place to fall when you need them!!!!!!!!    

 

Eight months would never have been enough time to serve for a crime of taking a childs' innocents, damaging her self esteem, trust, ego....on and on....and the GRANDMOTHER...shame on her!! I would have had her thrown in jail as an accessory to RAPE and also register as a SEX OFFENDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

   Ok, I watched last week even though I had read what Dr.Phil had put here & I responded.  BUT you know I STAND EVEN MORE THAN JUST FIRM ON MY STATEMENT THAT GRANDPA AND GRANDMA BOTH SHOULD BE LISTED AS SEX OFFENDERS & "IGNORANCE" CAN ONLY BE EXCUSED IF HE HAD A LABOTOMY PRIOR TO THIS ACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 You know, life is entirely too short to allow this kind of behavior to have even made it to an intervention. The children should have been removed by a loving support member such as a close relative, and either left the parents alone in the house to kill each other, separate the property, meet with lawyers, fight over custody without the children in sight. And end this ugly WAR. 

This family will never ever have a peaceful recovery, even with DR.PHIL'S miracle network of Dr.'s available.  The scars and hurts that are in the hearts and souls will never heal, the anger and resentment will never be forgiven. 

 

Good luck in the Part 2,

 

   I am 3 years clean & sober, happy and completely fulfilling my life without the use of medication that is not perscribed by VETERANS ADMINISTRATION PHYSICIANS, I won't even take a over the counter asprin.  I had a 33 year addictition, I missed sooooo much in my life that I resent myself, however, I would not be who I am today if I had not done what I did then.

 

I faced the UGLY MONSTER AND BECAME HONEST, OPEN, AND WILLING to admit I was completely powerless over mind altering drugs!! 

I also realized that telling LIES about my "being clean" was so darn much trouble because it made me think and plan harder about who I told what....be HONEST, FACE THE UGLY BEAST, Stick with what DR.PHIL OFFERS YOU ...YOU WILL NOT REGRET THE INTERVENTION..because he has your best interest and your future in his capable and powerful hands.   

 

LIFE IS WORTH SEEING THE REALITY AND GOD HAS WONDERFUL PLANS FOR YOUR FUTURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  HANG ON AND ENJOY THE RIDE!!!!!!!!!

 

          As I watched only the finals, the one thing about Gracie that touched me the most was her intense way of speaking HONESTLY about the way children in todays society often do feel.  Even the clips looking at her mom it looked like she too was going to cry. 

 

   I am glad that I do not live close by there because KiKi deserved to be shoved out the building.  You can tell that she IS attempting to live through her daughters talents.  I could see the excitement about the XBox and other gifts on her daughters face, but I also saw the HATE KiKi had towards an innocent child who was just doing her best and achieved more than her own daughter.

 

   I guess we all have to remember how HATEFUL WOMEN CAN BE and how accepting children are of each others success!!!!

 

When I first saw the information regarding this show I knew I needed to watch.  Ok, sit down and understand how a fellow female vet feels about her behavior and lack of honest feelings for her husband or her ex-husband.  When it came down to where Dr. Phil said a decision needed to be made I remember how many times men would look at each other and realize that they would never let a woman interrupt the domination of the male species.  Whatever...but she is lucky they didn't both just leave her sitting there in her own pitty pot!!!!

 

As a Veteran, she knew and knows all the consequences and repercussions that her husband was going to endure and she was very very selfish to not work with him and the Veterans Administration to get him back, not just leaving your fellow soldier behind!!!!!!!

 

I also feel terrible for your husband who has endured more of your garbage than any normal man should.  If I were him, I would have packed up and said call me when you decided what you want to do cuz 3 in a marriage is not a successful one.

 

I can not believe you were actually a Marine, with the type of unethical, immoral  behavior you are putting other people through.   Shame on you.  And sitting on the pitty pot crying like a baby...grow up and face your responsibilities like a GROWN WOMAN!!!!  

There is NOTHING wrong with you my dear, the only thing that may be wrong is your choice of people in which you choose to waste YOUR gas and YOUR energy on.

 

Remove anything of his from your home, and get your keys back, change the locks if necessary.  If he truly "cares" about you teach him how to TREAT you, make him COURT you as if you were back in the "old days". 

 

Take a weekend with girlfriends and learn to love YOU, because until you love and respect yourself, you won't be able to teach someone how to love you!!!!  Take a good smelling bubble bath, carry your head up with pride! 

 

Trust me on this...I went through ALOT of physical, mental, emotionally abusive relationships and I grew up like that too, I felt like the neighborhood dog droppings that everyone stepped in....

 

BUT between Dr. Phil, and my VA hospital, I went back to school, and I may not be getting straight A's but I am passing and the most important thing is I am proud of me, lots of men want to be with me and I am too busy to waste my time with them!!!!  Its all their loss, I have one friend (male) who has been around for 8 years..through good and bad, he lives on one side of town & I live on the other...we prefer to keep our friendship just that because anything more will cause trouble and confusion that is not necessary.

 

Good Luck & God Bless

 

 

           Way to say the truth in a totally politically correct fashion!!!!!!!!!  

 

  Tuesdays with Morrie was an outstanding book, the movie touched me even more.  The point is that it was one more true story that in  my baby steps of addiction recovery was a EYE OPENING experience.  I passed the book to someone else & the movie after they finished the book and he hugged me and told me that I have saved his life!!!  I told him I am just a guide, and he is the one to do the work and God will do the rest!! 

That friend has passed them both along as well and has received the same type of response and he answered them the same way I answered him...that is what it takes...its one more message payed forward....

Thank you Dr.Phil you are always and inspiration in my life!!!