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October 10, 2005, 12:50 pm PDT

10/10 Wifestyles

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Hello all! 

  

I'm a 21 year old University student.   

  

Although I could never be a "stepford wife" myself and would rather have a profession of my own, I don't think that all women should have the same goals as me.  I do not believe that a female's role is the same in today's society as it was in the past, however, if women WANT to that type of wife, then by all means, go ahead :), if women (like me) don't want get married and/or want to be "stepford wife", go ahead. 

  

:) Basically, what I'm saying is: Ladies, do what you want :) 

  

  

I say do what you want, but when it comes to GRANT... no one should be spoken to or treated the way he treats her.  

PS. I didn't get married until I was 30--because there was NO WAY anyone was going to control me. Then, I met a guy from Europe.
Wow, what a difference. LOL.  

They are out there--you CAN have it all.  

 
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October 10, 2005, 1:00 pm PDT

10/10 Wifestyles

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Looks like you have some issues within inside your self,  

  

Do you go to your husbands work and help him during the day? I think not. If it wasn't for your husband you would be taking care of your kids and working because I'm sure your the type of woman that would keep your kids from you husband for the sole purpose of receiving child support. So maybe you should get off your butt and stop watching TV and surfing the NET all day.  

  

If you are such a caring and loving person you would be able to look past all of this and accept your position in life. Remember your the Mommy, NOT the Daddy. So put on a nice dress and cook some muffins for your kids and you husband, and have them ready for him the next time he walks in the door. 

  

Bill Jinkens 

Hey, Bill...LOL. I read your letter and just cracked up.
I love watching TV all day and surfing the net. I'm wondering what a nice guy like you would suggest I wear when hubby gets home?  

I'd personally LOVE to go back to work full time and get my PhD--but one of us had to sacrifice life in the working lane to take care of stuff around here. I make great money working part time. I'd give my right arm to have HIM stay at home and me get the heck out of here every day. 

You sound like a darn good catch, btw. What's YOUR wife do? (or wife number one, two or three?) I sure hope if you're the one at home, you put on your dress and get the drinks ready at 6:00. 

OMG. Can't wait to read you on these boards everyday. 

I can tell we're going to be GREAT friends :)  

 
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October 10, 2005, 1:04 pm PDT

10/10 Wifestyles

Quote From: nwlywd2

It's so sad that this world is covered with the disgusting plague of pornography-- it's images and ideals.  So many people wonder why husbands wish their wives would wear sexy lingerie, or get boob jobs-- because this is what we see all over TV and movies, and we're told that that is what being sexy is. Not only is pornography wrong, but it plants unrealistic ideas in the heads of people who view it.  It makes men and women both believe that sex is supposed to be some incredible, erotic experience.  Sex is about love and caring, and the satisfaction it provides is directly related to how well the relationship is going outside of the bedroom.  If a husband is critical, his wife is less likely to desire to be physically close to her husband.  If a wife feels loved and appreciated, she might be more excited to surprise her husband with a little somethin'-somethin' when he comes home!  Marriage should be SELFLESS. 

  

And Grant-- you are a great guy. You really seem like you have a good heart, and that you didn't really realize how the things you're saying are making your wife feel.  Please act on the things that you are learning.  Love your wife and cherish her, and you'll get the same in return.  Your attitude CAN change, and you can feel that your marriage is the best in the world! 

You blame PORN..LOL, I'll blame his mother and father for raising such an idiot. I think his one brain cell is blown out and Kelly? Sorry, but marrying this guy was one mistake...then having THREE kids with him?
Oy. 

  

Karen 

 
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October 10, 2005, 1:14 pm PDT

10/10 Wifestyles

Quote From: meggie819

Yes I agree.  Women should not be forced to take on that role.  :) I forgot to mention that.  Thanks for the reminder. 

  

:) I am in a relationship right now.  Getting married isn't a goal of mine, but I would do it.  :P But not until I'm finished my schooling.   So I'll proably be close to 30s when it happens, and he's understanding.  He's so cute. We say "Marriage is not a bad thing.  It entitles people to legal mumbo jumbo, but as long as we're happy, we don't need rings to show how we care for each other."  

  

lol how cheesy are we? 

You're not cheesy at all..plus, you get to throw a great party and get great gifts! LOL... I got married because I was going to move to England to be with him--and couldn't have worked. Finally, his company here sponsored him to become a citizen. I'm glad we married because we decided to have a kid (I didn't ever want one, then at 31, decided to give it a go!) and legally, there's no way I'd not be married. Anyway, it's tough and you certainly can't just walk out the door. Very rewarding too. It's interesting because more and more people in his home country (England) are choosing to live together now and not marry.  

Watching some of these jerks on Dr Phil though, I remember why there was NO WAY I was ever going to be married. LOL... OMG, I just can't take men like Grant!
PS...you might not NEED a ring, but when you DO get one, make sure it's a STUNNER ;) Heh.  

 
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October 10, 2005, 1:26 pm PDT

Ok, I must be a real *itch!!!!!!

I just have to say this: I must be the biggest witch to live with EVER. My poor husband--I personally have NO "desire" to keep a perfect house or do half the crap I'm reading people say on here. I think life is about a heck of a lot more than cleaning, cooking and taking care of ANYONE, I don't care WHO does it!!! My husband works, and helps around the house and does all the stuff I hate (spider patrol, heavy lifting, cleaning out grout, gross stuff) we both decorate and paint together, he loves to cook so he cooks on weekends or whenever he wants, we BOTH do the dishes at night--we both do laundry (so does my son, thank you--I totally think kids need to pitch in all the time). We plan trips together, wash the carpets or take turns mowing the lawn. He works hard, I work hard and sometimes we complain and moan together but good GOD, it's not about "him doing this" or "me doing that"--- it's US, having a life together. Some days I crash and just veg..and some days he does. I can't imagine feeling like I HAD to do anything "for" my husband. I just can't.  

Point is: Our house and it's "maintence" is like the last thing on our lists!!!!! If anyone EVER "graded" me on ANYTHING I did --and they weren't say, MY CHEMISTRY TEACHER, I'd hit them over the head with a bat and tell them where to go!   

I just have no idea where men like Grant come from or how they ever got married in the first place.  

 
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October 24, 2005, 12:28 pm PDT

Selfish? Nah.. Evil? Heck YES!!!

Holy Crap..I thought I'd seen it all. Someone give this woman a ticket to Satan-Town now. "I didn't sign up for this"...well, I bet if he'd won the lottery instead of needing a liver, you'd be right there, honey.  

I know someone waiting for a kidney. His wife is run ragged from appointments, bills and just plain stress. Does she complain? Yes---but ever ABOUT her husband needing a kidney? Of course not. She may rail against the situation and the hospital bills, but never about it being his fault. 

This lady needs a spanking, and that's just the start of it. I hope her husband kicks her out asap and starts to live a happy life without someone making him feel guilty.  

Ughhhhhh!  

 
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October 24, 2005, 12:31 pm PDT

10/24 "Is This Normal?"

Quote From: kpugliese

Hi my name is Karen, As you must know name calling is not normal and acceptable.  My husband famous name calling for me is pork belly.  He does not realize that, that hurts my feelings really bad.  Depressed in Connecticut

Hi, Karen...I'm Karen too. :) Now, I can't imagine my husband calling me anything that made me unhappy or depressed. I just can't. If you've told him how it makes you feel and he STILL does it? Maybe he needs a course on being a decent guy--I'd tell him to cut it out NOW, or you're going to show him what it's like when you're not around to mock. 

Stand up for yourself!!! Don't let anyone call you something you don't like...especially if it's someone that supposedly loves you!!!!  

 
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October 24, 2005, 4:17 pm PDT

10/24 "Is This Normal?"

Quote From: milaminime

Okay, so here's a doozy for ya. I am 16 years old, Im an A/B student, I go to church youth group, so on and so forth. Well, my mom just got married about a year ago. My step dad has a son who is about a year older than me, he's a good guy, B/C student and is the one who introduced me to church youth group. well, here's the thing, he and I have been "seeing" each other behind our parents backs since about the day we met. I saw him and he took my breath away. He would stay the night at our house because his dad moved in with us and we would stay up all night, just talking. Soon i noticed I was falling for him, hard. And now, two years later, we are very much in love, but, our parents have no idea, well, maybe an idea, but they have never said a thing to us, and we've never ever made the fact that we love each other known for fear our parents will hate us for it, or get a divorce. We have had sex, I lost my virginity to him, and in no way shape or form do I regret it. I dont know what to do, I want to be with him for real, but I know people would think it was weird. So just tell me what you all think.  

-Confussed in Maine 

Well, you're 16--so I think your parents may be pissed more because you're in a "Church Youth Group" and  had sex. Not that I care, but I would think they might. I also think a lot has to do with the forbidden thrill of this relationship.  

 I have a feeling if you don't tell them in a calm manner, it will all come out way ugly; like when you're making out at on the den couch some night. LOL.  

  

 
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November 28, 2005, 1:20 pm PST

11/28 Conception Deception

Quote From: wolfbitch

I think you hit the nail on the head with "needy, lying, manipulative man".  She would do much better marrying a good guy who could at least have a good influence on his stepsons!

Hey, Wolfbitch, I just want to say I totally LOVE your pic...heh. It's great. Made me smile anyway. Hard to do after a show like this!! :) 

Karen  

 
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November 28, 2005, 4:08 pm PST

HUH?

Quote From: missjane2

Now if someone wants to have a baby with you.... I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE THAT AS A COMPLIMENT.  Now you have to say WHY don't you want the baby? because you don't love them or because you can't afford it or because you have no grandparents or someone to help.  Now think about this if you all said:  I want a baby and let the person think about it.... HOW LONG?  I don't know.  But if they had the chance to decide... and even if they said Yes and then changed their mind later you could have said Well you agreed at the time so you have to live with it....  There is so much for kids now adays.....  Why can't grandma watch the baby while you golf?

Not everyone wants kids...and that's ok. Life is way fun and full and gratifying without them. I know, I lived for 31 years without any--and it was just great. It's wonderful having one but my life wouldn't have been diminished if I never had a child. If someone doesn't want a kid, there's no way  they should have one, even if "there's so much for kids now adays"...  

  

Karen  

 

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