Messages By: kdmask

I say do what you want, but when it comes to GRANT... no one should be spoken to or treated the way he treats her.  

PS. I didn't get married until I was 30--because there was NO WAY anyone was going to control me. Then, I met a guy from Europe.
Wow, what a difference. LOL.  

They are out there--you CAN have it all.  

Hey, Bill...LOL. I read your letter and just cracked up.
I love watching TV all day and surfing the net. I'm wondering what a nice guy like you would suggest I wear when hubby gets home?  

I'd personally LOVE to go back to work full time and get my PhD--but one of us had to sacrifice life in the working lane to take care of stuff around here. I make great money working part time. I'd give my right arm to have HIM stay at home and me get the heck out of here every day. 

You sound like a darn good catch, btw. What's YOUR wife do? (or wife number one, two or three?) I sure hope if you're the one at home, you put on your dress and get the drinks ready at 6:00. 

OMG. Can't wait to read you on these boards everyday. 

I can tell we're going to be GREAT friends :)  

You blame PORN..LOL, I'll blame his mother and father for raising such an idiot. I think his one brain cell is blown out and Kelly? Sorry, but marrying this guy was one mistake...then having THREE kids with him?
Oy. 

Karen 

You're not cheesy at all..plus, you get to throw a great party and get great gifts! LOL... I got married because I was going to move to England to be with him--and couldn't have worked. Finally, his company here sponsored him to become a citizen. I'm glad we married because we decided to have a kid (I didn't ever want one, then at 31, decided to give it a go!) and legally, there's no way I'd not be married. Anyway, it's tough and you certainly can't just walk out the door. Very rewarding too. It's interesting because more and more people in his home country (England) are choosing to live together now and not marry.  

Watching some of these jerks on Dr Phil though, I remember why there was NO WAY I was ever going to be married. LOL... OMG, I just can't take men like Grant!
PS...you might not NEED a ring, but when you DO get one, make sure it's a STUNNER ;) Heh.  

I just have to say this: I must be the biggest witch to live with EVER. My poor husband--I personally have NO "desire" to keep a perfect house or do half the crap I'm reading people say on here. I think life is about a heck of a lot more than cleaning, cooking and taking care of ANYONE, I don't care WHO does it!!! My husband works, and helps around the house and does all the stuff I hate (spider patrol, heavy lifting, cleaning out grout, gross stuff) we both decorate and paint together, he loves to cook so he cooks on weekends or whenever he wants, we BOTH do the dishes at night--we both do laundry (so does my son, thank you--I totally think kids need to pitch in all the time). We plan trips together, wash the carpets or take turns mowing the lawn. He works hard, I work hard and sometimes we complain and moan together but good GOD, it's not about "him doing this" or "me doing that"--- it's US, having a life together. Some days I crash and just veg..and some days he does. I can't imagine feeling like I HAD to do anything "for" my husband. I just can't.  

Point is: Our house and it's "maintence" is like the last thing on our lists!!!!! If anyone EVER "graded" me on ANYTHING I did --and they weren't say, MY CHEMISTRY TEACHER, I'd hit them over the head with a bat and tell them where to go!   

I just have no idea where men like Grant come from or how they ever got married in the first place.  

Holy Crap..I thought I'd seen it all. Someone give this woman a ticket to Satan-Town now. "I didn't sign up for this"...well, I bet if he'd won the lottery instead of needing a liver, you'd be right there, honey.  

I know someone waiting for a kidney. His wife is run ragged from appointments, bills and just plain stress. Does she complain? Yes---but ever ABOUT her husband needing a kidney? Of course not. She may rail against the situation and the hospital bills, but never about it being his fault. 

This lady needs a spanking, and that's just the start of it. I hope her husband kicks her out asap and starts to live a happy life without someone making him feel guilty.  

Ughhhhhh!  

Hi, Karen...I'm Karen too. :) Now, I can't imagine my husband calling me anything that made me unhappy or depressed. I just can't. If you've told him how it makes you feel and he STILL does it? Maybe he needs a course on being a decent guy--I'd tell him to cut it out NOW, or you're going to show him what it's like when you're not around to mock. 

Stand up for yourself!!! Don't let anyone call you something you don't like...especially if it's someone that supposedly loves you!!!!  

Well, you're 16--so I think your parents may be pissed more because you're in a "Church Youth Group" and  had sex. Not that I care, but I would think they might. I also think a lot has to do with the forbidden thrill of this relationship.  

 I have a feeling if you don't tell them in a calm manner, it will all come out way ugly; like when you're making out at on the den couch some night. LOL.  

Hey, Wolfbitch, I just want to say I totally LOVE your pic...heh. It's great. Made me smile anyway. Hard to do after a show like this!! :) 

Karen  

Not everyone wants kids...and that's ok. Life is way fun and full and gratifying without them. I know, I lived for 31 years without any--and it was just great. It's wonderful having one but my life wouldn't have been diminished if I never had a child. If someone doesn't want a kid, there's no way  they should have one, even if "there's so much for kids now adays"...  

Karen