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September 28, 2006, 10:09 pm PDT

That would be nice to go along with his recovery

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 I'm one of the ones that commented on Josh's teeth -- I was hoping an orthodontist might read it and step up with an offer.  I still hope a dentist steps up.  But if not, now you've got Josh in rehab and Dr. Phil's picking up the cost.  If he comes out sober with a commitment to stay sober, it would be a wonderful gift of love for you to get the process started for him.   I had my braces when my family had very little money, so we did it slowly, as we could afford it, and it worked.

It doesn't do anyone any good for you to call us names.  Speaking for myself, I said what I said out of concern for Josh, not out of meanness.

God bless your family -- we're praying things turn out well for your son.
I agree.  If he gets clean then having a doctor step up to help with his teeth would really help him to get a new start.  He is a good looking guy and I wish him success with his rehab.  I truly hope he goes in there with an open mind and realizes that even though things can go bad and it may feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders, there is always a better way than drugs. 
 
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October 3, 2006, 7:03 pm PDT

Too harsh?

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"No one is perfect," what does that have to do with anything? Not being perfect, is forgetting a anniversary, forgetting a birthday, saying somethng insensitive, that type of thing.Letting some guy who isnt your husband crawl up on top of you does not qualify as not being perfect, it qualifies you as a cheater, it qualifies you as a tramp. Yes I can judge, because I have never and will never cheat on my spouse or significant other. Unless Todd has cheated on HER in THIS marriage, then nothing he has done can justify that woman cheating on him.  You knew her in school, how long ago was that? She looks well into her 40 s and people change as apparent from you saying "Jessica is a very caring and loving person." well apparently she no longer is, atleast to some exstent (sp?).  As for  "not to be scrutinized on the internet because of some mistakes they had made" thats what this messageboard is for, that woman knew what she was infor from the get go, I dont feel sorry for her 1 little bit.
The quote "Do not judge, or you too will be judged For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you".  Matthew 7:1-2.  It's also called "karma" for what goes around comes around.  Yes I agree that Jessica lied. Yes I agree she did wrong, but everyone has their own demons.  I agree that she is a cheater, an adulterer and that is something she will have to live with for the rest of her life.  I assume her husband was not giving her what she needed which is why when it came along she went for it.  Tramp? I don't know, that may be going a little bit too far.  I believe she really doesn't want to work on her marriage from the way she reacts.  She didn't seem very honest and didn't see like she was really sorry.  You say you will never cheat on your husband and I hope someday you don't choke on those very words.  If it's not you who will be doing the cheating then it might be your husband.  So get ready for heartache yourself for as the quote says, you too will be judged.
 
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October 3, 2006, 7:34 pm PDT

It's both their fault

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   Why does it always have to be someone elses fault...lets not let her get off so easy as using what happened to her as a child. I have know many people that have had bad childhoods, rather than repeat the bad behavier that did all they could to be a better person.
I am not letting either of them off easy because it's not my job.  That is something they will have to deal with for the rest of their lives.  They both have to take responsibility with their own actions and what part of the relationship they damaged and how.  Whether it was her cheating, him not participating in the relationship, her calling him names or him nagging her about whether she had an affair or not.  They both had a part in it.  It's seems he's ready to forgive and move on but she seems like she wants out.  I am sure their minds are going crazy with different scenarios and what to do and not do.
 
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October 3, 2006, 7:51 pm PDT

Kids, Kids, Kids - Grow up people!

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I can't bear to watch the kids going through this mess.  They need to be removed until Jessica and Todd calm down and quit screaming.  She is a liar.....from day one.  She needs to "get out of there" so she can call the boyfriend....who does she think she is fooling?

I see the way everyone is worried about the kids.  Kids this, kids that!  Yes I agree it is terrible what these kids are going through BUT they are not the only kids going through this and much more. 

 

Why do you think we have kids on drugs, kids having sex at 8 years old and sometimes younger, kids cutting classes, kids dropping out of school, kids shooting and killing others?  Because they are subjected to the stupidity of adults who only care about themselves and are oblivious to their childrens needs.  We close our eyes to our own inequities but love to judge others inequities. 

 

Our children are suffering not only with what goes on in the house but what they see on television everyday, the violent games they play on their playstations, the porno they see on the internet , the lousy music on the radio and the pictures they post of themselves half naked on "My Space". 

 

That is what upsets me, that adults are quick to complain when their children have to say the Pledge of Allegiance, or when they are subjected to anything to do with "Jesus", something that is good, but they are not quick to complain about the dirt on television, the dirty music or the other violent stuff that they see and hear everyday, especially in their own homes.

 

Why?  Because it violates their "freedom".  Grow up people.  Our kids are our future and if we keep brainwashing them with junk, junk will continue to come out and our juveniles will be broken when they grow up to be adults.  Just take a look at yourself.

 
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October 3, 2006, 7:58 pm PDT

Yes the choice is yours

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Choices 101:

 

No one can complain about  you, that is if  you are making good choices. Why would they? So  you might as well make your choices good ones.  

I agree with you.  It all has to do with the choices you make.  If some tall, dark and handsome hunky guy comes up to you and starts romancing you everyday and you get all hot and fuzzy and you body says I got to have him, it's a choice you make whether to move on that urge or not. 

 

Life is about choices and sometimes we don't look at the consequences and just jump in only to face the turmoil of our choices in the future.

 

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