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worried
September 22, 2006, 11:44 am PDT

close minded family

Well, I have been in a couple of interracial relationships that have all ended in fighting and yelling within my immediate family.  My family is a very close minded family they don't feel that it is right to have a relationship of any kind with anyone outside your race.  My current relationship is with someone that is from LA. that moved to Texas in 2000, everything is okay with us but he has to deal with the fact that he doesn't really get to be a part of my family's life and that he doesn't get to come around during family times.  But we do currently have a child on the way and will eventually have to break the news to the new grandparents.
 
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September 22, 2006, 11:53 am PDT

IN IT FOR HIM?

Well I have a relationship that has lots of sex but it is the type of sex that you don't want.  It's the "wam bam thank you mam" type.  He just hurries up and does his thing and he's done, there's no spice, no change, no variety, there's nothing.  I have tried to talk to him about it but it seems like he doesn't care or maybe he just thinks he's so good that I am just playing.  But honestly a girl would like some foreplay or something.  Anything is better than the "aight I'm done" I've been getting.  It's weird because he expects oral sex and things like that from me but yet will never return the favor.  He always says, "I don't do that!", so does anyone have an idea on how to change my selfish lover to a generous lover?
 
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September 27, 2006, 11:15 am PDT

here and there

I am currently in a relationship with someone that I really care about.  We began dating not too long ago and I should have slowed things down when they needed to be slowed.  Now we have a baby on the way and I am near 6 months pregnant.  My issue is that because I didn't slow things down he began taking advantage of me and the situation we were in.  He quickly began staying at my home, driving my car, and the next thing I knew he was cheating on me.  2 weeks later I find out that I am pregnant.  He freaked out and began acting like he didn't care.  He then began a relationship with another female yet tried to hold on to me at the same it.  After all of this happened we tried to work things out and he came back just to leave again back to his home state.  He is currently at his home state to work and he calls me all the time.  He tells me how he's messed up and how he is coming back and going to be there for me and our baby but then sometimes he is the total opposite and treats me badly.  So now I am trying to figure out weather or not it is worth it to be with him though all of the things he's done because I do care about him.  The best way to describe him since I told him I was pregnant is "back and forth", he doesn't know how to show emotion and tends to portray it badly.  So in all reality I need to know how to deal with the things he is thowing at me or just to call it a day and move on?

 

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