Messages By: cissie88

I'd hope we learned to not blame a higher power for our mistakes?  All the household cleaning chemicals alone is outrageous.  Most water is chemically treated, bottled water was tested and found not as safe as most faucet water?  Food filled with color, flavors? Medications scripted out for everything from in grown toe nails to sleeping aids? I don't think they really know all the effects of a woman taking birth control pills over time to the future generations?  I know we minimzed alot of polution but the effects is still with us.  I think the gene pool is made up from 4 generations on each side?  That is alot of potential for what could be a problem if both parents

carry samy links to problems to thier children?

The Bathroom?  Boys = male gender  Girls = female gender !  It is about the gender physically!

We cannot risk some court battle that ends up making bathrooms not private to genders! 

How we live, how the generations of dumping oils and chemicals in our ground made mistakes,

diets, medications and life style made mistakes.  Now the children are paying for it.

thats not Gods fault, it ours.

OK, so let's assume that the lighter fluid incident was an accident......

So how about a man living without an income, no electricity, charges for cruelty to a family cat, which I'm sure the children had a bond, not seeking medical attention for a 4-year-old, and filthy living conditions.

Nope, doesn't sound like it all happened by accident.  Simply sounds like a case of not taking responsibility for one's actions without regard for the innocent. 

Although we only know what was presented on the show it was enough for me to question both parents' ability to protect their children. 

I think Kelly and her husband are doing the only thing they know how to do to protect their grandchildren.  I give Kelly credit for stepping up to the plate to avoid having her grandchildren in the foster care system, which we all know is not perfect.  Although there are many wonderful, loving foster families (have one living next door), there are an equal number of foster homes that are sub par and downright dangerous.  I would question any grandparent's character for not doing the same, with senior health problems excluded of course.  I'm sure Kelly didn't plan on spending her golden years starting over raising children but thank heaven that she is.  And to say they are doing it for $246.00/month in disability and child support (Which is based on the parent(s) ability to pay.), is ridiculous and an insult to the rest of us parents that know what it costs to raise healthy, well-fed, educated and socially stimulated children. 

Maybe one day Earl and Heather can petition the court for visitation, but the courts obviously have enough evidence at this point in time to sever the relationship. 

There are good men out in this world, like myself, as well as good women out in this world. But why is it that good women love bad men, & why is it that good men love bad women? That's what I don't seem to get. Whenever a man/woman has been cheated on constantly, being abused, or anything else, that good person still happens to love them & still be with them. Talk about having low self esteem! For me, I like good women, as well as bad ones too (but only to help them & change them). I don't judge or condemn anyone, just always like to help them out.

No, Misty C this is not a joke.  I am NOT suggesting that the children be returned to Heather and Earl at this time.  I AM SUGGESTING THEY RECEIVE VISITATION.  I think it IS WRONG for Cliff and Kelly to use the children as a PAWN or a WEAPON.  )   So Kelly takes on Heather's 3 children, but THROWS HEATHER AWAY like she is a piece of garbage.  THIS I DON'T AGREE WITH.   ALL KELLY'S GOOD DEEDS to me are canceled out by her refusing to let Heather around her children.  I mean look at the other guy... a guy in prison has visitation with 2 little girls that aren't even his????  Now we have a mother who chose to be a mother who wants to see her kids.....  IF THE FOSTER PARENTS WERE NOT EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED IN THE SITUATION:  SHE WOULD BE ALLOWED TO SEE THEM.

Yes, I agree there are things that need to be dealt with, with Earl and Heather, BUT HEATHER DESERVES TO SEE HER KIDS.  And if not:  MAYBE KELLY DOESN'T DESERVE TO SEE HEATHER SO SHE CAN FEEL WHAT SHE IS DOING TO HEATHER......  regardless of Heather's cleanliness issues........

Well first of all, I must start out by saying that I am a little biased in this situation because Sarah, the woman married to the man in prison, is my sister. However, I do know first hand what their situation is like. Sarah is happy and I support any decision she makes 100% as long as the outcome makes her happy. She has known Willy, her husband, for a long time. It's not like she just met some guy in prison and decided to throw her life away. They were friends before he was ever locked up. They have history together. Not only that, but why should she settle for some guy out here with money that can take care of her and her children, etc if that type of guy wouldn't make her happy? She's already found the person that fulfills her spiritually. I think it's admirable for someone these days to marry for love as opposed to what they can do financially or physically for one another. I've been there when these two have visited eachother and they are so in love. The words spoken between them are romantic in a way I've never seen between a couple out here. Knowing my sister and her history in the love department, I'm completely happy for her and I don't care what anyone says. Don't judge them for you're not in their shoes. It's not your authority to judge their actions.